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PAS : KE ARAH PEMERINTAHAN ISLAM YANG ADIL
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Assalamualaikum
Didalam keghairahan kita dok bincang pasal poligami
dan nak tambah isteri dan sebagainya. Ada baiknya kita
renung sedikit rintihan isteri kedua dibawah ini. Saya
rasa tentu banyak masalah seperti ini yang terjadi
dimana mana. Sekali lagi nak ditekankan, jika tidak
boleh berlaku adil dan saksama, jangan lah berpoligami
kerana ianya hanyalah satu penganiayaan pada isteri
isteri dan diri sendiri ( di Akhirat )
Silalah baca unedited version dibawah ini dan beri
buah fikiran dan pandangan.
Wassalam
Adam
second wife wrote:
> assalamualaikum wbt
>
> actually i also have problem and really need help
> (at least, opinion from
> other netters)..but i'm tooo embarrased to actually
> send it for i'm
> terribly afraid people might trace who i am...by
> looking at my email
> address...so i hope u can do me a favor....by
> forwarding my mail to
> everybody...:))jazakallah..
>
> as a matter of fact, i'm practising poligamy. I'm
> the second wife. we have
> been married for more than two years..and we have an
> adorable and beautiful
> son....the problem is my husband never told the
> first wife that he has
> another wife (me). The first time we got married he
> promised me to tell the
> truth..but two years had passed by...and still the
> first hasn;t known
> yet..Therefore my husband tak pernah berlaku adil
> dan tak pernah buat
> giliran.....dulu2 ada jugak balik 2-3 kali
> seminggu...now langsung tak
> balik...kadang2 seminggu lebih..he never gave the
> nafkah zahir to me..for
> he knows i have my own career..(i'm an oversea's
> graduate)...what more the
> nafkah batin...cos he rarely balik rumah....and i
> just cannot tolerate it
> anymore...kesian dekat anak jugak,,..cos he also
> needs his father's love
> and quality time...
> sometimes in a month, he only stay overnight once
> ....telling u the truth i
> am still young (26 yrs old..)...and of course...tell
> me any wife who
> doesn't needs all the love. affections, belaian jiwa
> whatever :) from their
> husband.....always longing and wanting him...
>
> now i cannot tell my family cos i'm sure they will
> blame me for that...dulu
> saper suruh kawin dgn dia???...and all that
> sorts....i dont know what to do
> cos everytime i tried to bring up the subject..he
> would say i tried to
> demand things and ended up we fight with each
> other....AGAIN...now..dah
> lebih seminggu dia tak balik...i guess i cannot take
> it any longer...should
> i just become a single mum??....
>
> i'm lost...
>
> please help....( tolong fwd anonymously...tq)
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