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You have a new boyfriend and your friends think that he's a complete jerk just by looking at him. They don't want to talk to him and they find it annoying when the two of you are together. But what can you do? To you he's a fine guy and he's been persuading your for months and now this? But you also can't just leave your friends or let them think that you don't care about them anymore. It's really frustrating to bridge a gap that doesn't even have a concrete basis. More so, a gap that started out of a bad first impression or just mere annoyance of your guy's presence. It could be that your girlfriends are jealous because they can't spend enough time with you anymore now that you have a boyfriend. What about some of them who have boyfriends too? You're cool with their guys so why can't they be cool with yours? You might think this is an unfair treatment towards your guy, but try to think of ways to understand your girlfriends' side. There could be underlying reasons as to why they hate him. You can't just dump him or your friends because you want to take one side. It won't work that way and it's going to be unfair for all of you. Here are some things that can do to make things work for you, your boyfriend and girlfriends: 1. First thing to do is to talk to your girlfriends. Ask them what's wrong, why they hate your boyfriend, why they're annoyed. You should assure them that you'll accept whatever reasons they may have for feeling that way towards your guy and because you need to know in order to have peace of mind. 2. Understand their reasons but balance them out. If your friends' reasons are quite biased, shallow or without concrete basis, tell your friends that their assumptions are superficial. If you can persuade your friends to get to know your guy so they'll be able to appreciate him better, that would be a fair and ideal move for all. If you can't persuade them and instead they want you to dump your guy, let them know about what you think and feel about this. Of course you love your friends, but you also love your boyfriend, and you can't make a decision based on what they like. You can tell them that it's your decision to make but dumping your boyfriend for your friends' sake won't make things better for everyone. 3. Take your friends, minus your significant others, to an all-girls night out or slumber party. This is the best time to bond with your girlfriends and talk about issue with your guy. If you can tolerate the harshest blow, then take it. If not, tell them that they're going overboard. The most important thing is to let them understand why you love your guy and what they think is wrong. If you can convince them to at least accept him as your significant other, you'll appreciate their gesture even if it's just for your sake. 4. Schedule time for your girlfriends only and you should let your boyfriend know. A guy will always love and understand his girl if she requests special times with her friends. If your guy is cool with this, tell your friends about it and let them feel that it's important to you. If you can't be with them at the same time, there's always a way to spend time with your friends and boyfriend on separate occasions. If it's impossible, don't force it. But if your friends change their hearts toward your guy, that's the time to let them mingle and know each other better. Whatever happens, tell your friends' that your boyfriend is the right guy for you since you can't find anything wrong with him. And no one can dictate what you should and should not do because it's your heart's decision that is important. Harrison Fray is an experienced and expert wedding planner who specializes in groomsmen gifts and wedding gifts buying. His advice can help you to buy gifts cheaply but with unique style. Drop by http://www.goweddinggifts.com/ to see what Harrison recommends. ------------------ ARTICLE END ------------------ [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
