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You can get other people to do things your way in with many different tricks and techniques. Bribery, threats, weapons, even chocolate candy. Some ways work better than others. Some ways make them angry for having met you, and some ways make them want to marry you. In this article, I will be showing you some of the good ways to easily and naturally persuade others. They will enjoy being persuaded, and they will come back for more. And they will tell their friends about you so that you can persuade them as well. Think I'm kidding? Read on. The most important step is to create a feeling of rapport. This is a feeling when you have a deep subconscious feeling of being connected to another person, on a deep level. Most people only feel this level of connection after a long time, but experts can produce this feeling in a matter of minutes. These are the people that get all the money, and all the dates. This also can be you, as well. So how do you create rapport? Match their world in as many ways as you can. Match the speed at which they talk, match the words they use, match their body language, facial expressions, even the tonality they use. Most people are afraid of getting caught when doing this, but that rarely happens. If it does, all you need to do is say, "Wow, I was thinking the same thing!" OK, now that you have established rapport like a master Jedi Knight, what next? Start to pull them into your world, slowly. Scratch your ear, and see if they scratch theirs. Tilt your head and see if they follow you. Lean back in your chair, and watch what happens. Once you are leading them, you are ready to pounce, er, persuade. The first thing you do is elicit their criteria. Criteria are the reasons somebody is doing something. I want to buy a red bicycle because red makes me feel sexy. In this case, feeling sexy is the criterion. I want to fish because I want to maintain good blood pressure. I want to maintain good blood pressure, because I value my health. Personal health is the criterion in this case. With their criteria, you can carefully craft you message of persuasion, whatever it is you want them to do, so they will readily accept it. These aren't the droids you're looking for. Simply explain to them by doing what you want, they will be satisfying their criteria. If they like to swim because it makes them feel peaceful and relaxed, tell them they can feel peaceful and relaxed doing what you want them to do. Of course, you can't be blatant with this. You'll need to casually introduce the idea into the conversation. Make sure you remember two things. One is that at first, this will seem awkward, and you feel like you are speaking French. Keep practicing. The second is that once you get the hang of it, resist abusing this new power. Because eliciting and leveraging criteria is very powerful, and you could easily trick people into doing things against their best interest. Be careful out there. George Hutton is a world renowned expert on persuasion. You can visit his site at http://www.georgehutton.net/wordpress ------------------ ARTICLE END ------------------ [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
