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Make Your Book Personal; Engage Readers with the Story of 
Your Experience

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If you're writing a business, self-help, or other instructional 
book, then it may not seem important to share information 
about your personal experiences. The purpose of your book is 
to give people strategies and tips they can use, right? In 
reality, including your personal story, if you have one, not only 
makes it more powerful and personal, but it also makes the 
book unique because it comes directly from you. 

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Category: writing and speaking

Written By: Melinda Copp
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Make Your Book Personal; Engage Readers with the Story of 
Your Experience
© Copyright 2009 Melinda Copp

If you're writing a business, self-help, or other instructional 
book, then it may not seem important to share information 
about your personal experiences. The purpose of your book is 
to give people strategies and tips they can use, right? Well, 
yes, but sharing your background is a powerful way to 
connect with your readers and show them how your material 
can help them when they apply it. 

For example, if you're writing a book about how a person can 
use yoga to overcome stress, you're obviously going to 
include historical research about yoga, background about how 
stress affects a person mentally and physically, and different 
yoga practices a stressed-out person can incorporate into 
their daily life. That will be the bulk of the material in your 
book. 

But what compels a person to write a book like that, 
anyways? Perhaps the author once suffered from stress and 
eventually found yoga as a solution. This isn't always the 
case, but oftentimes an author's desire to write a book that 
will help others comes from their own personal experience. 
They've been in the same situation as the reader, and they 
want to give those folks the resource that they so 
desperately needed. 

Including this story, if you have one, in your book not only 
makes it more powerful and personal, but it also makes the 
book unique because it comes directly from you. Here are a 
few ways to include your story in your book.

1. Your Defining Moment
Think back to before you ever heard about the topic of your 
book and what your life was like then. What situation were 
you in? What problem were you facing? For many people, this 
is a low point, but it doesn't have to be. Your defining moment 
is a realization that something in your life needs to change, 
whether in your health or personal satisfaction or career. And 
most likely, it's a situation that your ideal reader has found 
himself in at one time or another.

For example, if you're writing a book about how to establish a 
better relationship with your teenager, then your defining 
moment could have been a time when you felt farther from 
your own child than you ever had before. Or if you're writing 
about how to crate train a new puppy, your defining moment 
may have been a day when you came home and found your 
house destroyed. Or maybe your defining moment was an 
encounter with someone who changed the way you see the 
world. Whatever it was, your defining moment inspired you to 
take action and seek the solutions you now want to share.

2. Your First Introduction
What was your first experience with the topic of your book? 
How were you first introduced? What was your situation 
before you learned about the topic? What problem were you 
facing? And what made you look for a solution? Let's look 
again at the yoga example mentioned previously. If you were 
stressed out, maybe your doctor or a friend suggested you 
take a yoga class. Maybe you had some preconceptions about 
yoga before you tried it-maybe you were skeptical. Did you 
have this type of experience with the material you teach in 
your book? If so, write it down as clearly and honestly as you 
can. Your readers, who find themselves in a similar situation, 
will relate.

3. Your Steps in the Process
If your relationship to your material can't be traced back to a 
single, specific event, then look for a series of events or 
realizations that brought you to where you are today. For 
example, if you've developed a process for starting any 
business on a shoestring, then think about the steps you 
went through when you were getting your business ideas off 
the ground. What didn't work? What would you have done 
differently? What worked better than you expected? Think 
about how the steps and strategies you're writing in your 
book are similar to the steps you took in your own life, and 
write about how you connected all the dots to develop the 
process you're sharing with your readers.

Sharing the Story of Your Material
As you're writing your how-to nonfiction book, think about 
these three different ways to incorporate your personal 
experiences. Doing so not only makes your book more 
interesting, but it also builds rapport with your readers and 
shows them the benefits of following your experience-earned 
instruction!

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Melinda Copp helps aspiring self-help, business, and 
nonfiction authors write and publish books that establish 
expertise, attract clients and opportunities, and share their 
message in a compelling way. Visit 
http://www.writerssherpaprograms.com/writeabook.html for a 
free copy of her Write Your Book Quick-Start Mini E-course.

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