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What is the fastest way to fixing a bad relationship? You probably feel pretty awful, something may have gone wrong in your relationship and you may be desperate to turn it around. I want to tell you something right off the bat: things may not as bad as you think. You actually have a little time to stop and get some perspective. Please read on, I think I can help you out. A break up actually can be a very good thing. Sometimes we need to be by our self and focus on our needs, because if we can't help our selves how can we help others? So if the separation occurs because of a difference of opinion, an argument, or a temporary feeling of dissatisfaction; the purpose to get by your self is being served. As I said earlier, don't be worried about never getting back together because the bonds we form in our relationships are pretty strong and they won't fall apart with just a few days or weeks of a "breakup". Remember this also: a healthy relationship won't be 100 percent happiness and everything going right. You can't please the other person all the time, they might be a little grumpy for some reason or another but you can't be there to fix every problem all the time. If you're always there trying to figure things out or try to please them, you might start to be regarded as a "pest" and their regard for you might go pretty sour. Further, a people-pleaser comes off as desperate with an underlying sense of low self-esteem; we are all universally turned off by that kind of behavior. So trying to immediately fix the problem is really only a symptom of the problem: so back off, let the other person be. If you're not bending over backwards trying to be a people-pleaser you ARE going to come off in a completely different way: one who has enough self-esteem to not be desperate for a relationship. You see, we are all universally ATTRACTED to those kinds of persons; those who are self-assured and not pleading, desperate, or "clingy". In fact using this technique will have a tremendously powerful effect on your ex, causing him or her to want to be with you all of their own free will. If ever there was a "secret" to the fastest way to fixing a bad relationship, it's this variation on the hard-to-get theme. We always want most what we can't have. The best solution is to let go of the process and accept what happens; this causes your ex to ease up in their attitude about you and then the reconciliation begins. Find out all the secrets to fixing a bad relationship; more and more people are going to http://www.relationships2u.com for the best relationship advice available today, including secret techniques to get back an ex lover or save a failing marriage. ------------------ ARTICLE END ------------------ [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
