Tivar still thinks the harness plume is gay but he is getting used to it.... besides, he is secure in his own masculinity. he just wishes I wouldnt make him wear it when we ride on old country roads past redneck farms and elderly men wearing overalls... Tivar detests being laughed at. he cannot bear it. Its the worst form of abuse as far as he is concerned... being laughed at in his harness plume is the height of unbearable public humiliation, thus the ears. but he does it for me in a spirit of true forgiveness. Janice -- yipie tie yie yo
