>>> He tolts in the field, very stocky (old Icelandic body type) and I think
he is what most Americans look for in a stallion for their mares.  Anne
insulted him without even seeing him.

Denise, due to bad experiences in my "day job", I was always very skeptical
of "users' groups" so I didn't join any of the yahoo lists until I'd had
horses for probably 15 years, and Icelandic's for a couple of years -
relatively late considering how long some people have been on these lists.
Not long before I finally broke down and joined, I had a random encounter
with an Icelandic owner via ebay, when I inquired about a piece of tack she
had for sale.  There was an Icelandic-sounding-reference to her ebay name,
so I asked if she owned some.  She wrote back answering the question about
the for-sale item, and said yes, she did own some Icelandic's.  I wrote her
back that I had three pregnant mares - that was when I was expecting my
first foals.  I was shocked by her reaction...she didn't even stop to ask me
how long I'd owned horses, or what breeders I'd been dealing with, but just
immediately lashed out that I shouldn't be breeding ...I've forgotten her
exact words...maybe she said "unknown horses"...?  I was stunned - no
questions about my experience, where my horses were from, what they looked
like, what lines, nothing asking how much research I'd done on breeding,
what kind of support I have locally - nothing.  She didn't know me, so she
immediately rushed to tell me I shouldn't be breeding.  After ONE e-mail off
ebay!  For nearly 15 years, I'd been researching breeding off and on, and
never could make myself breed until I found this breed, so I did feel I'd
done some serious homework.   (And I'd owned gaited horses for 15 years when
I bought my first Icelandics...) So, I have no trouble believing what you
say - that was pretty much how one particular person active in the breed
welcomed me to the "club" too!

Karen Thomas
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