>>>>  Karen, you can be the test case.  It would be amazing if watching the
videos would somehow inject that memory into your body.


I don't think it will... not literally.  But we have to keep in mind how
each of us learns, and having a daughter that's a polar opposite from me
made me VERY aware of those differences.  Emily and I essentially started
riding at the same time. Quickly, the instructor realized that Emily is
phenomenally adept at learning things visually.  Emily is an artist and
athlete - I'm an Engineer with a tiny bit of artist floating around inside
somewhere. For instance, I can watch someone request and get a flying lead
change all day...and I can pretty easily figure out and process the
steps...but it is a big struggle for me to make my body do what my brain
understands.  In contrast, the instructor would sometimes ask Emily to get
off the horse, and she'd get on and quickly demonstrate what she wanted her
to do and voila...Emily knew how to do it.  Believe me, that was humbling
for me when Emily was about 9 and I was in my mid-30's.


What SEEMS to work best for me is to take time to analyze the mechanics of
what is involved with an action, and get it ingrained in my brain - I need
my "muscle memory" first at a mental level.  I can learn a good bit of
theory from books and videos.  Then, I have to make myself go into a "soft
focus" state of mind, actually on a horse, where I don't let myself get hung
up on the details, and try to "allow" my body to do what my brain already
knows.  Learning about riding this way would not work at all for my
daughter...but then, there's no way I can learn the way that's easiest for
her either.



Karen Thomas, NC



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