Judy Ryder <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> kirjoitti: > Don't get caught up in arguing. Some members are merely looking to hear > themselves talk, and some need desperately to have someone engage with them. > They want to be heard, and the only way they feel they can accomplish that > is to say something that is totally off the wall, just for the attention. It > is so much more satisfying to them than sitting quietly, listening, and > learning. > > Unfortunately some write thru drugs and alcohol. Please don't reward that > behavior. Just ignore the socially unacceptable behaviors. >
Judy do you write these things as an "answer" to something that has never reached the list or because of discussion that actually is on the list? Because to me they sometimes seem like they come in a time when nothing special has been happening. Krisse
