This is what Oprah has to say about men...
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If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition
(or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself
for
a relationship that's not meant to be.


Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly
happy.

If a relationship ends coz the man was not treating you as u deserve
then
heck no, you can't "be friends".  A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.

If u feel like he is stringing u along, then he probably is. Don't stay
because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a
year
later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He
didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any
differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers u,
speak
up.

Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behaviour.* Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if
he
has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a
quasi-god.

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two
Way
street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and
you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Isn't
this TRUE!!!!!

Never move into his mother's house.

Never co-sign for a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that u
need.*
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other women... You'll make someone smile, another
rethink
her choices, and another prepare.


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