my feelings on this matter :

1. ilug-cal meetings (or any member meets) are with the single
purpose of members interaction and fraternising .. and are to
complement list bon-hommie

2. meetings are looked forward to .. proved time and again by the
demands of list members to have regular meets .. with interesting
things thrown in

3. meetings also give a sense of real world and continuity .. and
fulfill that eternal need for person to meet/feel/see/interact
with others

so :

a) sharninder feeling left out is something no member would want
b) any member new to calcutta is like a guest to our city
c) thank goodness bengali is sooo like hindi .. just imagine what
would one of us feel in a chennai lug meeting with tamil flowing
as a local thingy

conclusion :

i) sorry sharninder .. i didn't realise
ii) initial hesitation on your part understood .. but most were
new faces there .. so feel free to signal your feeling to the
senior (read older and also elder) members .. they can set things
right promptly
iii) thank you for showing more understanding (common platform)
and less resentment/anger .. your offer to co-ordinate with raja
is welcome

wishing you the best

..pk

(can't help adding .. sharninder .. don't take very seriously the
nicks and cuts from the jabs and jibes of all members here .. its
like fencing practice .. keeps happening .. we are having all
kinds of flavours in our 'colnels' .. but overall we're just
plain friendly and nice .. errr .. i think ..    ;-D  )

(further comments for all members : i find that face to face
we're not sooo acidic .. but emails are sometimes too sharp ..
and freedom to punch the keyboard unfettered also results in
punching fellow members a bit more than in meetings .. take care
guys .. we all can be punched back .. tone of emails sets the
pace of eGroups .. too much freedom is like a loaded shotgun ..
used wisely it is a great help .. but it has its inherent dangers
of cross fire leading to a volley which eventually leads nowhere
.. so .. freedom to all BUT restrained by oneself .. how does it
sound ? strange ! huh ?)



----- Original Message -----
From: Sharninder <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Saturday, December 07, 2002 7:26 PM
Subject: [ilug-cal] [OT] Disappointed


> just came back from the ilug-cal meeting and being a
non-bengali (i guess
> the only one) was a little disappointed. this was the first
time i
> attended an lug meeting anywhere. i think i clearly mentioned
that i
> belonged to chandigarh and did'nt understand bengali. all the
discussion
> was in bengali and only the decisions were in english. and that
was what i
> understood.still i got the hang of the discussion and now that
we are
> speaking on acommon platform, Mr. Raja guha ( i hope i spelled
it right ),
> i amvolunteering for the Campus 2003 event. As for my skill set
is concerned.
> i can install linux in server environment ( eg. Apache,
exim/sendmail,
> samba, BIND) and can help in general troubleshooting at the
event.I have
> debianwoody CDs and RH 7.3, Gibraltar Firewall 0.99, Astaro
> security linux. If any needs any of these get in touch with me
offlist
> then we can make arrangements.
> another thing about the compass event, i don't think holdng an
install
> fest there is not a very good idea. basically because of the
time it takes
> to install linux "properly" on a box and the space that we have
available.
> I don't think many visitors would be willing to sit around in
stall for an
> hour just to see red hat being installed by us
> Last but not the least ... Plz try and communicate in english
on the list
> atleast !!
>
>
>
>
>
>
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