Hello, Let me clarify,I** have never tried to stress my superiority over anyone cos i strongly believe that all of us can be wrong. Do not take my comment as a personal attack on someone or that i am trying to show down anyone. That is not my habit and that is not wht i was thought.
Humility is wht makes a person a good human and not arrogance. Personal attacks are indicative of arrogance which i strongly oppose. On Sun, Mar 20, 2011 at 3:02 PM, Gurcharan Singh <[email protected]> wrote: > Nudrat ji > I agree that some new members some times may behave in a manner, which is > not normal for this group, but I don't agree that the general atmosphere in > the group has suffered. It has to the contrary, improved a lot, thanks to > the high standards set by some senior members in the group, and some new > members who have shown a lot of maturity. We all have to play our role in > ensuring that the members don't get provoked. None of us the right to > suggest others whether they should join the group or not. We should just > play our positive role. I have been often been commenting on this group. > Don't stress your superiority. Let others judge. The problems always arise > when you try to prove the other person wrong. > Mutual respect is key to the good atmosphere in the group. > > > > -- > Dr. Gurcharan Singh > Retired Associate Professor > SGTB Khalsa College, University of Delhi, Delhi-110007 > Res: 932 Anand Kunj, Vikas Puri, New Delhi-110018. > Phone: 011-25518297 Mob: 9810359089 > http://people.du.ac.in/~singhg45/ > > > On Sun, Mar 20, 2011 at 2:13 PM, Nudrat Sayed <[email protected]>wrote: > >> Hello, >> >> I am in complete agreement with you Sir. If people havent got he maturity >> to accept that they may be incorrect then they shouldnt become a part of >> public groups. I have been a part of this group for long but they way things >> are developing n this group i no longer feel like interacting. Hope the >> atmosphere will become once again as it was. >> >> >> On Sun, Mar 20, 2011 at 7:27 AM, Gurcharan Singh <[email protected]>wrote: >> >>> Yes Nudrat ji >>> I fully agree with you. In fact I make it a point to intervene. I think >>> all of us should help in restricting this practice, but of course in a >>> polite way. The harmony in the group is of prime importance. >>> >>> Happy Holi to all. >>> >>> >>> >>> -- >>> Dr. Gurcharan Singh >>> Retired Associate Professor >>> SGTB Khalsa College, University of Delhi, Delhi-110007 >>> Res: 932 Anand Kunj, Vikas Puri, New Delhi-110018. >>> Phone: 011-25518297 Mob: 9810359089 >>> http://people.du.ac.in/~singhg45/ >>> >>> >>> On Sun, Mar 20, 2011 at 12:48 AM, Nudrat Sayed <[email protected]>wrote: >>> >>>> >>>> Hello, >>>> >>>> My recent interaction on this group made me feel that people take >>>> comments made while identifying plants personally. This practise is in my >>>> view quite unhealthy as anyone can be incorrect in identification. People >>>> should not have this attitude that a comment made is a personal attack on >>>> them. We all are matured individuals and should take comments made on our >>>> post in the similar manner as we expect others to take our comments. >>>> -- >>>> Warm Regards >>>> Sayed Nudrat Zawar >>>> >>>> >>>> >>> >>> >>> >> >> >> -- >> Warm Regards >> Sayed Nudrat Zawar >> >> >> > > > -- Warm Regards Sayed Nudrat Zawar
