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From: Shuman Mumtaz
Sent: Saturday, December 18, 2004 7:05 PM
Subject: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY? In The Name Of Allah, Most Gracious and Most Merciful As'salamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh HOW TO MAKE OUR HUSBAND HAPPY? 1)Use your charm to win the heart of your husband: all women have the ornaments that Allah has blessed them with. Use the beauty Allah Almighty has bestowed on you to win the heart of your husband. 2)When your husband comes home, greet him with a wonderful greeting: Imagine your husband coming home to a clean house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a dinner prepared with care, children clean and sweet smelling, a clean bedroom � what would this do to his love for you? Now imagine what the opposite does to him. 3)Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al Ayn and try to imitate them: The Qur'an and Sunnah describe the women in Jannah with certain characteristics. Such as the silk they wear, their large dark eyes, their singing to their husband, etc. try to please your husband. 4)Always wear jewelry and dress up in the house: From the early years, little girls have adorned themselves with earrings and bracelets and worn pretty dresses � as described in the Qur'an. As a wife, continue to use the jewelry that you have and the pretty dresses for your husband. 5)Joke and play games with your husband: a man's secret: They seek women who are light-hearted and have a sense of humor. Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him) told Jabir to marry someone who would make him laugh and he would make her laugh. 6)Thank your husband constantly for the nice things he does: Then thank him again. This is one the most important techniques, as the opposite is a characteristic of the women of hellfire. 7)And argument is a fire in the house: Extinguish it with a simple `I am sorry' even if it is not your fault. When you fight back, you are only adding wood to the fire. Watch how sweetly an argument will end when you just say sincerely, "Look, I am sorry. Let's be friends." 8)Always seek to please your husband, for he is your key to Jannah: The Prophet (peace be upon him) taught us that any women who dies in a state where her husband is pleased with her, shall enter Jannah. So, please him. 9)Listen and Obey! Obeying your husband is your duty! Your husband is the Ameer of the household. Give him that right and respect. 10)Make Dua to Allah to make your marriage and relationship successful: All good things are from Allah. Never forget to seek Allah Almighty's blessings of having a successful marriage that begins in this Dunya and continues on � by the Mercy of Allah Almighty � into Jannah. (The author is the Director of Washington-based Al-Maghribi Institute.) Published by: Shuman Mumtaz *************************************************************************** {Invite (mankind, O Muhammad ) to the Way of your Lord (i.e. Islam) with wisdom (i.e. with the Divine Inspiration and the Qur'an) and fair preaching, and argue with them in a way that is better. Truly, your Lord knows best who has gone astray from His Path, and He is the Best Aware of those who are guided.} (Holy Quran-16:125) {And who is better in speech than he who [says: "My Lord is Allah (believes in His Oneness)," and then stands straight (acts upon His Order), and] invites (men) to Allah's (Islamic Monotheism), and does righteous deeds, and says: "I am one of the Muslims."} (Holy Quran-41:33) The prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "By Allah, if Allah guides one person by you, it is better for you than the best types of camels." [al-Bukhaaree, Muslim] The prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) also said, "Whoever calls to guidance will have a reward similar to the reward of the one who follows him, without the reward of either of them being lessened at all." [Muslim, Ahmad, Aboo Daawood, an-Nasaa'ee, at-Tirmidhee, Ibn Maajah] -------------------------------------------------------------------------- All views expressed herein belong to the individuals concerned and do not in any way reflect the official views of IslamCity unless sanctioned or approved otherwise. If your mailbox clogged with mails from IslamCity, you may wish to get a daily digest of emails by logging-on to http://www.yahoogroups.com to change your mail delivery settings or email the moderators at [EMAIL PROTECTED] with the title "change to daily digest".
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