Salam
May Allah forgive my suspicion, but the whole story sounds very contrived.
On 6/8/05, Nogaradwan <Nogaradwan> wrote:
>
> el salam alykom w rahmat Allah w barkath:
>
> it shocked me what i read in ur letter sister. may be it was a sin but Allah
> is the most merciful and forgives anything expect el shark (worship
> partners) so may be it is a push to make u return back to Allah's path so
> don't listen to the devil , return back to ur prayers cause no one will save
> u from this problem and that devil u used to love but Allah. so i will try
> to help u gives u a prayer may it help u :
>
> alahm ana abdok w abn abdok w abn amatk nasyat bydk madn faya hakmk adln
> faya kadaak asalk bakol asmn how lak samayt bh nafsk aw anzalth fi katabk aw
> almth ahd mn khalkak aw astaathrt bh fi alm el ghayb andk ana tagal el quran
> el karim rabia kalby w noor sadry w galaa hazny w zahab hamy
>
> Amen
>
> ur sister
>
> Noga
>
>
> [EMAIL PROTECTED],
> [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
>
> Bismillah hir Rehman nir Rahim
>
> A Cry from A Chat Victim
> Posted byAdministrator on Tuesday, June 24 @ 18:07:45 ??
> Contributed by Administrator
>
> Translated By IslamWay Sisters
> Q & A from www.Saaid.net
>
>
> A Girl Wrote an email saying:
>
> Assalam Aleikom wa Rahmatullah wa barakatuh I hope you can be of use to me
> in this problem: I'm a 17 year old Arab girl living in an Arab country and
> still in high school.
>
> Unfortunately, I learned about the internet yet, I misused it and spent my
> days chatting with guys and watching prohibited websites
>
> (I did such things behind my parents back and no one knew about them) even
> though I used to be religious and hated girls who chatted with guys.
>
> I then got to know a 21 years old guy-through the "Messenger" living in the
> same country but of different nationality and we went on chatting till we
> exchanged true and untainted love "just for the sake of Allah".
>
> He used to educate me about teachings of religion and lead me to
> righteousness and guidance. He allowed me to see him through a camera, we
> sometimes prayed together.
>
> Later he started to show me parts of his body which in return caused me to
> become an addict to the secret habit. Such situation went on for a month in
> which we learned a lot from each other. We maintained voice chatting and
> when I trusted him I allowed him to see me, my hair and most of my body
> parts through the computer camera. My love for him grew more and I thought
> only of him and nothing else to the extent that I couldn't concentrate in my
> studies, consequently causing my level of educational pursuit to decline.
>
> He then told me about where he lived and so did I. I called him on his
> mobile a while after that and checked the validity of the information he
> gave me. He said he wanted to marry me, I agreed to his proposal for
> marriage, although I'm supposed to marry my cousin, yet I'm now so afraid of
> my parents' disapproval especially after he started to threaten me saying:
> "If you leave me I'll disgrace you and spread your pictures"! Also he said:"
> I'll cal you using the numbers you dialed to reach me and tell your folks
> all about you."
>
> When I discussed this matter with him he said that it was just threats yet I
> feel that he is not threatening me and that he's really going to do
> something, and now I'm thinking seriously of leaving him and returning to
> the path of Allah.
>
> My parents are Muslims and religious and if they knew that I'm in love with
> a guy and actually in contact with him they're gonna kill me( by "kill" I
> mean beating and humiliating) to avoid the scandal and bad reputation.
>
> I don't know what to do! I'm so scared;
>
> I want guidance;
>
> I want to be happy and safe;
>
> I'm sick of thinking and feeling scared.
>
> Please help me. Because of this problem I quit praying; I quit worshiping in
> general because I'm bored and desperate with my life; my sisters' reputation
> and futures-as well as mine- will be destroyed if I don't die, and I want
> to, today before tomorrow.
>
> I want to leave him but I fear the scandal. He will call back so how can I
> stop him? Will Allah forgive me if I return to his path? What are the
> conditions of repentance and how should I repent and?
>
> I fear that I may go back to what I used to do? Where's the way out?
>
> How could I get rid of my addict to the secret habit? And now that I suffer
> from sexual frigidity, how can I treat it without my parents knowing about
> it?
>
> I seek your reply so bad; don't throw my mail away.
>
> Please help me as soon as you can; there's no one else to help me; please
> help me, please.
>
> The sister's message is over; a message that is truly rich with lessons and
> examples Is anyone out there willing to learn?
>
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> „X I shall pause at her saying: ("¡K we exchanged true and untainted love,
> "just for the sake of Allah") The problem is that every girl thinks that the
> guy who tries to hit on her is her dream prince and the fulfiller of her
> dreams, while he is actually the prince who brings failure, the maker of
> sorrows and the destroyer of hopes. She pictured such love to be (... true
> and untainted love¡K) but she smells the rotten of it all before the end of
> the story; and he appears to be a stereotype of those wolves who care for
> nothing except fulfilling their desires. The hopes are vanishing and the
> pains are aching and there he is threatening her saying: "If you leave me
> I'll disgrace you and spread your pictures"! Is this true and a "for the
> sake of Allah" kind of love?! This is the American way of love!
>
> „X She says: "I'm so scared; I want guidance; I want to be happy and safe;
> I'm sick of thinking and feeling scared" Wasn't she at peace and
> overwhelming bliss, following the path of guidance and performing her
> prayers before stepping into the hellish land of "Chat"? Why is she scared
> now? Why did she quit praying? It's the ominous of disobedience that
> deprived her of the pleasure of obedience. What was she looking for in
> "Chat" vaults? Looking For happiness? She is left now screaming "I want to
> be happy and safe".
>
> „X How weird the following words are:" My parents are Muslims and religious
> and if they knew that I'm in love with a guy and actually in contact with
> him they're going to kill me to avoid the scandal and bad reputation (by
> "kill" I mean beating and humiliating)" All this happened while the parents
> where inattentive to their child; they've been so careless and so wasting of
> the Trust. It's the ultimate confidence that parents have specifically in
> young ladies which results in such a disaster. A father may say: "I have
> sheer blind trust in my daughters and my unmarriageable relatives in
> general". They're no better than Mothers of the believers, nonetheless Allah
> Exulted and Majestic be He said about their ethics:
>
> " O Consorts of the Prophet! ye are not like any of the (other) women: if ye
> do fear (Allah), be not too complaisant of speech, lest one in whose heart
> is a disease should be moved with desire: but speak ye a speech (that is)
> just";
>
> and Said about the Believers' ethics towards them:
>
> " And when ye ask (his ladies) for anything ye want ask them from before a
> screen"
>
> Why did He say that?" that makes for greater purity for your hearts and for
> theirs".
>
> Is anyone out there willing to learn?
>
> "Verily in this is a Message for any that has a heart and understanding or
> who gives ear and earnestly witnesses (the truth)."[Chapter 50, verse 37]
>
> This message has been mailed to me and I took permition from the sister to
> publish it, and so I did with the exception her nationality.
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