Dear Angle,
I would say:- Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi
Wabarakathuhu.
(not salams)
This is beyond the point.
Accusations to galore !.
But please be patient and read the following-
all authentic.
Not to cause embarrasment, but to recognize the
faults and remedy.
WOMEN: Sahih Al-Bukhari
Hadith Narrated Ibn
Abbas The Prophet said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you." Narrated Abu Said Al
Khudri Once Allah's Apostle went out to the Musalla (to offer the prayer) on 'Id-al-Adha or Al-Fitr prayer. Then he passed by the women and said, "O women! Give alms, as I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-fire were you (women)." They asked, "Why is it so, O Allah's Apostle?" He replied, "You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you." The women asked, "O Allah's Apostle! What is deficient in our intelligence and religion?" He said, "Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?" They replied in the affirmative. He said, "This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Isn't it true that a woman can neither pray nor fast during her menses?" The women replied in the affirmative. He said, "This is the deficiency in her religion. Narrated Sahl The men used to pray with the Prophet with their Izars tied around their necks as boys used to do; therefore the Prophet told the women not to raise their heads till the men sat down straight (while praying). Narrated Aisha The things which annul the prayers were mentioned before me. They said, "Prayer is annulled by a dog, a donkey and a woman (if they pass in front of the praying people)." I said, "You have made us (i.e. women) dogs. I saw the Prophet praying while I used to lie in my bed between him and the Qibla. Whenever I was in need of something, I would slip away, for I disliked to face him. Narrated Um Salama Whenever Allah's Apostle finished his prayers with Taslim, the women would get up and he would stay on for a while in his place before getting up. Ibn Shihab said, "I think
(and Allah knows better), that the purpose of his stay was that the women
might leave before the men who had finished their prayers. Narrated Aisha Had Allah's Apostle known what the women
were doing, he would have forbidden them from going to the mosque
as the women of Bani had been forbidden. Yahya bin Said (a
sub-narrator) asked 'Amra (another sub-narrator), "Were the women of Bani
"Yes." Al-Muwatta Hadith Concerning Women Going Out to the Mosque Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said from Amra bint Abd ar-Rahman that A'isha, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "If the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless
him and grant him peace, had seen what women do now, he
would have forbidden them to go into the mosques,
just as the women of the Bani Israil were forbidden."
Yahya ibn Said said that he asked Amra, "Were the women of the Bani Israil forbidden to go into the mosques?" and she said, "Yes." Al-Muwatta Hadith Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn Urwa from his father from A'isha,xx Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said "Tell Abu Bakr to lead the people in prayer." A'isha said, "Messenger of Allah, when Abu Bakr stands in your place his voice does not reach the ears of the people because of his weeping, so tell Umar to lead the people in prayer The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'You are the companions of Yusuf!
(referring to the women who cut their hands when they saw the beauty of Yusuf). Tell Abu Bakr to lead the people in prayer!' " Fiqh-us-Sunnah Fiqh
2.63a The
positioning
of the young
and the women
The Messenger of Allah placed the men in front of the young boys and the women behind the young boys. This is related by Ahmad and Abu Dawud.
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