Israel's youngest divorcee is just 14

14-year-old girl receives $2,390 as she is divorced by 17-year-old husband 
after Jewish religious marriage. 


TEL AVI - A 14-year-old girl has become Israel's youngest divorcee after 
splitting from her 17-year-old husband under pressure from the boy's parents, 
newspaper reports said on Thursday.

A rabbinical court recognised the unnamed pair as married because the teens, 
both from religious Jewish families, performed the only three requirements of 
marriage under Jewish religious law -- ceremony, consent and sexual relations.

Jewish religious law does not require the presence of a rabbi at a wedding 
ceremony.

The boy gave his girlfriend a ring in front of friends who served as witnesses, 
and said: "Behold, you are consecrated to me by means of this ring, according 
to the law of Moses and Israel."

The two later consummated their union, newspapers said.

When the boy's parents learned of the marriage, they demanded that he divorce, 
but the young bride initially refused. She reportedly relented after the boy's 
parents paid her 10,000 shekels (2,390 dollars, 1,874 euros).

Their divorced status would likely appear on the teens' identity cards when 
they receive them at the age of 16.

The Jerusalem Rabbinical Court then held expedited divorce proceedings for the 
pair and issued a statement hoping "that this story serves as a lesson to young 
people who have to understand that marriage is a serious affair."

Israeli law does not allow for civil marriage, and those wishing to tie the 
knot may do so only in accordance with the customs of their respective 
religions.

Jews may only marry in Israel in accordance with Halacha, but civil marriages 
from abroad are recognized.

The story caused mixed reaction, with some Jews defending the child marriage. 

"Humanity hasn't changed, and the Torah and its teachings are eternal," said 
one commentator. 

According to Jewish religious law, she will not be able to marry anyone with 
the name of Cohen, traditionally from the Jewish priestly caste.

Many commentators were more concerned with the Jewish law implications of the 
case, even discussing the religious view of the consequences of what is to 
happen if they had children. 

One commentator said she should perform a religious repentance; prompting a 
protest from another who said that she did nothing wrong to repent from.

"What did she do that requires Teshuvah (repentance)? She was halachically 
married and had a physical relationship...the Torah allows a girl over the age 
of 12 to get married."

Another commentator touched on the issues of virginity and polygamy. 

"The sexes are not equal in this regard; there really is a double standard. 

A guy has no virginity to lose, and ... he can have as many wives as he likes. 
Even after he gets married, she becomes a married woman, but he doesn't become 
a 'married man'; Jewish law doesn't recognise such a thing - he's 'the husband 
of a woman', but he's not 'married'. 

If he plays around with a single woman it's not adultery, and the kids are not 
mamzerim (bastards)

http://www.middle-east-online.com/english/culture/?id=30649 

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