As Salaamu Alaikum
The Influence Of gossip cannot afford to overlook the influence that other
people have on me. there are cases where people quarrel, fight and even commit
murder because they are influenced by gossip, influenced by the words of
others. To what extent do I check that I am not being influenced by gossip?
Negativity in the mind is like poison. Negative thoughts are the seeds of
negative actions. It might seem like a simple everyday occurrence - my friends
tell me in the strictest confidence that such and such a person is like this
and does so-and-so. I listen and accept without question because of the
friendship. My attitude and actions now become influenced by my friends words,
and I find myself acting and reacting in accordance with the information fed to
me. Gossip and guessing bring sorrow, heaviness and distrust. Poison can come
in many disguises, but poison is poison whether from an enemy or a friend.
Anonymous
PoEtEsS
"Happiness is the key to the foundation of satisfaction, contentment and
acceptance…"Zohra Moosa (Deaf Poet)
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{Invite (mankind, O Muhammad ) to the Way of your Lord (i.e. Islam) with wisdom
(i.e. with the Divine Inspiration and the Qur'an) and fair preaching, and argue
with them in a way that is better. Truly, your Lord knows best who has gone
astray from His Path, and He is the Best Aware of those who are guided.} (Holy
Quran-16:125)
{And who is better in speech than he who [says: "My Lord is Allah (believes in
His Oneness)," and then stands straight (acts upon His Order), and] invites
(men) to Allah's (Islamic Monotheism), and does righteous deeds, and says: "I
am one of the Muslims."} (Holy Quran-41:33)
The prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "By Allah, if
Allah guides one person by you, it is better for you than the best types of
camels." [al-Bukhaaree, Muslim]
The prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) also said, "Whoever
calls to guidance will have a reward similar to the reward of the one who
follows him, without the reward of either of them being lessened at all."
[Muslim, Ahmad, Aboo Daawood, an-Nasaa'ee, at-Tirmidhee, Ibn Maajah]
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