Egyptian men explain their relentless catcalls

Many thought Egypt's pervasive sexual harassment had ebbed when men
and women rallied side by side for revolution. But old habits have
returned.


By Sarah Lynch, Correspondent / June 24, 2011

Cairo

Mohammad Anter hands out flyers to evening crowds on a packed Cairo
street, trying to catch the attention of any passerby – until one
catches his.

 “Hey, hot chic!” he yells. “You have beautiful eyes!” Mr. Anter is a
computer science student and salesman at a small shop here; he is one
of Cairo’s many casual harassers.

“We’re an Eastern culture, so it’s all right for me to yell out – when
I’m attracted to someone, I do it,” he says, surrounded by fluorescent
store lights and shoppers in every direction.

Anter is not alone: The Egyptian Center for Women’s Rights found in a
2008 study that 83 percent of women are sexually harassed and roughly
half of Egypt's women experience such treatment on a daily basis.

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Many thought that men like Anter had changed during Egypt's uprising
five months ago. When hundreds of thousands converged on Tahrir Square
in a collective effort to oust President Hosni Mubarak, men and women
stood side by side in unified protests with few instances of sexual
harassment.

But while activists say the revolution was a step in the right
direction, the popular demand for greater freedom has not necessarily
brought a greater recognition of women's rights or reprieve from
harassment.

"Just because Mubarak stepped down doesn’t make people anymore
educated or aware of how to behave appropriately and respectfully,”
says Amy Mowafi, editor of an Egyptian women’s magazine called Enigma.

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Activists are seeking to make people more aware, however, most
recently with a June 20 Twitter campaign under the hashtag #endSH.
Offline, Nazra for Feminist Studies is working on building a
grassroots feminist movement. And in early June, an Egyptian women’s
Charter was released with half a million signatures of people calling
for women’s social and political representation and equal economic and
legal rights.

Men blame delayed marriages, inappropriate clothing
Down the street from Anter, a group of young men guarding their carts
of colored T-shirts say they didn’t have time to think about hassling
women during Egypt's 18-day uprising; they were concerned with
political aims. Now they’re back to their monotonous jobs and
catcalling is a way to pass the time and make casual jokes.


“It’s normal – people here really like to laugh, so it’s OK,” says one man.

“See that girl?” asks another man, Ahmed Mahfouz. He points to a woman
with flowing black hair, wearing a short-sleeve shirt. “We’d yell out
to her because she likes the attention. That’s why she dresses like
that.”

But farther down the street Abdel Azim admits that it's not just the
less conservatively dressed women who get unwanted attention.

“Usually we hassle the girls who dress inappropriately,” he says. “And
veiled girls who are extremely beautiful – then we can’t help it.”

Anter says men wouldn’t harass women so much if they could get married
younger, though activists denounce that as an unacceptable excuse.
Local tradition requires that men have an average of 15,000 Egyptian
pounds (about $2,500) before formally asking a woman’s hand in
marriage. The 25-year-old, who works two jobs, has been unofficially
engaged for more than two years. He still doesn’t have enough money to
get married.

“Egyptians are conservative,” says Fatma Emam, a research associate at
women’s rights organization Nazra, “so people don’t get involved in
sexual relations until they are married. They find sexual harassment a
way to express their sexual frustration.”

Mr. Azim says delayed marriage is one of the reasons for harassment,
but explains that married men harass women too. He does it only when
his wife isn’t looking.

Anter gets a disappointing phone call
Activist and feminist Nawal El Sadaawy, who has fought for Egyptian
women’s rights for decades, suggests that sexual harassment is part of
a broader oppression of women in Egyptian society.

“We are oppressed by the patriarchal class system… . We are oppressed
by power – military power, class oppression, and money," she says. "So
we have to connect harassment to political and economic harassment.”

She says the toppling of Mubarak was the first step in effecting
change for women.

But lasting change – whether political or social – will likely take
many years. One draws parallels to an argument made by writer Frantz
Fanon, who believed women's participation in the Algerian Revolution
would change social relations forever. “And of course he was 100
percent wrong,” says Marina Ottaway of the Carnegie Endowment for
International Peace in Washington. “As soon as the war was over,
things went exactly to the way they were.”

Back on one of downtown’s dusty streets, as the evening grew late,
Anter's phone rang. “My fiancée just called and broke off our
engagement,” he says, his eyes heavy. “Her family is tired of
waiting.”

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