> And I'd rather be called a bitch which to me says I know what I want and I'm > standing on my own legs, than to hear comments like: "And how does your > husband feel about you doing this-or-that" or "Doesn't your husband mind if > you do so-and-so" - which just immediately gets my blood boiling!
You know Lieve, this happenes with gay couples too. the amount of times I have been asked'doesn't John mind?'. It astounds me. John wouldn't dream of telling me what I can do or who i can see, Likewise the other way around. One ting that has always annoyed me is the excuse women sometimes use 'my husband won't let me'. It annoys me on two fronts. 1. I tend to think it is not true and an excuse. OR 2. it is true and in that case what is she doing allowing him to make her decisions?! anyway it looks as if our trip is going to be in rain and wind. fun....not....
