You are a very loving person Wally. Balancing the heart and mind is not a simply task.
Much love, Heather -----Original Message----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]On Behalf Of Wally Kairuz Sent: Wednesday, December 11, 2002 12:43 PM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: everything comes and goes NJC dear family, i am very sad to announce that my relationship with alberto has ended. we love each other very dearly, and i will never stop believing that alberto was the man i wanted to marry and raise a family with. alberto has been unemployed for almost two years now, and i thought it was best if he tried his luck on his own. sometimes protecting a person curtails his potential for growth and maturity. i hope god will have mercy on me if this decision was a mistake. i know i'd never forgive myself. i was happy and hopeful when i announced our commitment ceremony for my upcoming birthday on the 27th. i never for a moment doubted that the power of love can work miracles and that everybody deserves to be who they really are, regardless of past mistakes and lack of self-awareness. i am much humbler now. i accept that although my mind can understand that a man may be married for 20 years and have four children and still claim a new life as a gay person at 55, my heart cannot cope with the concept. i will try to be more careful from now on. i will try to be more thoughtful. i hope alberto will be happy and that he and i know and find what we are looking for. love, wallyK
