Colin, You understand! My partner and I are starting on our sixth wonderful year together. She is not a lesbian. Never been with a woman before me. But the connection between us is very powerful. I've never 'turned out' any one before, and in the beginning we were both a little scared. She told me then she wasn't gay and never would be. I have no fear she will ever leave me, or doubt her love for me. But she likes guys. She likes male bodies. She did not turn gay. But we do love each other deeply, and have made commitments to a future together. She is my fantasy come true............A REPUBLICAN :) just kidding. Kasey
Wally Kairuz wrote: >after all, can a heterosexual person >*turn* gay? >wallyK, amazed at all there is to learn about human feelings. > > > imo, no. (i don't lay it out as fact). Being gay is much more than who you have sex with. Men in isoaltion do have sex with eachtoher(prisons etc) but that does not make them gay. Hetero men rape the 'enemey'soldiers during war. it is do with power and humilition-does not make them gay. I think that even now, many gay men marry and try their hardest to be hetero. It usually does not work, causes much grief for all concerned. Gay women too. Being gay, depsite these so called liberal times, is still a difficult life. who would choose it?(not that I would change it either). We are still the one minority it is okay for all the others to dump on and it is sanctioned by religion and state. We provide a valuable service for all those sad people that need someone to hate or feel superior to. bw colinGet more from the Web. FREE MSN Explorer download : http://explorer.msn.com
