Hi, Dean:

I was born one mornin' when the sun didn't shine in Cambridge, Massachusetts, 
and was then very badly raised by a father who learned his parenting skills 
at Okinawa and a mother whose favorite past-times were chain smoking and 
pretending nothing was wrong.

Luckily, the soulless Boston suburb in which I was brought up happened to be 
a short bus ride to the love-ins, sit-ins, riots, concerts, coffeehouses, and 
general cultural fireworks that made the Cambridge/Boston area the unique 
place it was in the late '60s and '70s. 

>From '72 to '76 I went to college in Boston and lived in various city 
neighborhoods. Although I will always love Boston and I hope to live there 
again someday, by the late '80s I was ready to leave. So destiny took a hand 
and reached down and plucked me up and dropped me into a new job that I was 
suddenly offered in July of '88.  That job was in Hawaii, which I guess sort 
of makes me a kamaina. I lived in Honolulu on Diamond Head in one of those 
tacky little apartment buildings on Kanaina Avenue that never seems to show 
up in the classic picture postcard views of Waikiki. Hawaii was beautiful, 
and I often miss it, but I only stayed there one year. I guess paradise just 
isn't all it can be when you have a 9 to 5 job downtown at the AmFac Towers. 
When I first moved there, I remember looking at people like they had two 
heads when they told me I'd miss the change of seasons, but they were right. 
Now I think maybe we become bio-chemically altered by the weather we've grown 
used to. In any case, I know that I was homesick because I remember lounging 
on some of the world's most beautiful beaches in mid-winter and missing old 
Cape Cod. 

So I moved closer to home, to New York City, without a job, and in a bad 
economy (1989, the last time a George Bush was President). I lived in an 
illegal sublet and freelanced a little bit for a few months, but times were 
hard. Then one morning, after a very long and dark night of the soul when I 
really didn't know what I'd do next, the phone rang and I had a great new 
job. (Oddly enough, my first major project at this job was a TV shoot in 
Hawaii!) I stayed in New York until '93.

After four years in NYC I thought I deserved a break, so I moved to Martha's 
Vineyard for a year and did very little. When the money ran out in '94, it 
was time to get a job again. So after living on the islands of Oahu, 
Manhattan and Martha's Vineyard, I moved to Rhode Island, which isn't an 
island at all. Go figure.

So for now you can put my pin on Providence, Rhode Island. But you may have 
to move it if that wanderlust hits again.

Mahalo,

    --Bob


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