I'm labelling this njc because, although there is a
tiny bit of Jc, I suspect it's not of the sort that
would interest the joni-onlys.
My husband and I are separating. This will not be a
long diatribe on the rights and wrongs done by one
person to another, who's right, who's wrong, or
anything of the kind.
So far, unbelievably, we are both being
uncharacteristically civil about it - we do have to
live in the same house until he can move out and his
lease begins July 1. I am waiting for the other shoe
to drop. It is unlike my husband not to make some
totally mean-spirited personal remark, and there have
been fewer than I would expect, knowing him as I do
and having lived with him for 20 years. It is also
unlike me not to rise to the bait if he makes one of
these remarks, so, so far, so good.
Here is the thing that is pissing me off though and it
goes to show you what petty and strange creatures we
humans can be.
He was going through our CDs picking out the ones that
he would like to take with him when he leaves. Among
these are some Jane Siberry and (God forbid) Joni!!!
and here I am getting angry inside about this when I
can always just go out and buy another copy, or make
copies (I would give him the copies of course - my
money paid for all this stuff). So what's my problem?
Somebody, please convince me that this is a real
honest-to-goodness case of sweating the small stuff
(when there are so many other things I could and
should be concerned about - like child custody, for
example.) Sometimes I don't believe myself...
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