Why can't a gay man publicly speak out against this issue and gain some 
integrity and respect still baffles me

If a gay man did speak out publicly against "man-boy love" or against those 
who advocate it, do you think anyone would broadcast, publish or give a 
flying rat's behind about it? No, the news/entertainment industry is far more 
interested in putting the spotlight on those who advocate the "deviant" point 
of view in the first place....way more sensational and interesting and 
comforting for the oceans of people who think all gay men are deviant anyway.

I marched in my first gay pride march in Washington DC in 1978 and was 
uncomfortable then, as I am now, with the inclusion of NAMBLA in the gay 
movement (if there is a gay movement, but that's another discussion).  When I 
was in college and active in the gay student group, one of the school's 
tenured faculty members got into hot water because he was found to be 
molesting, on an ongoing basis, the nine-year-old son of a lesbian friend. It 
caused all sorts of fraction and friction in the community as some gay men 
rallied round the guy because he was "just expressing his love" and had long 
been an active community volunteer and leader. But I think we all knew that 
something sickening and wrong had happened and that the woman and her son had 
been terribly used.  

But, getting back to today's NAMBLA discussion, I want to point out that 
there is  some homophobia in all of this....if an organization of straight 
people wanted to change the age of consent to 14 for heterosexual 
relationships (and legal marriages), most people would object, but not with 
the degree of disgust and anger aimed at the gay pedophiles of NAMBLA. I'm 
sure a lot of you disagree with that, but I think it's true.

Bryan

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