I receive that.
But please, after answering a question,
or two,
when I suggest we take some complex or lengthy material to class,
after more questions are asked,
no disparaging remarks 'grin'.
I care about people, and that hurts a tender heart.
So much is missed in emails,
and things get mis-construed.
If you don't want a tutoring session, or can't afford one, just say no thanks,
Take care.
At 02:38 PM 9/21/2010, you wrote:
Then show it without trying to make people feel forced or belittled into
your services.
-----Original Message-----
From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf
Of Chris Belle
Sent: Tuesday, September 21, 2010 12:25 PM
To: JSonar -- JAWS Scripts for Sonar discussion list
Subject: Re: [Jsonar] Getting rid of hum/hiss
Again,
not your call how I see fit to tell people about my services.
I see you forward emails from sites with offers for gear all the time.
And that isn't even asked for,
of course I don't mind, but I'm making a point here.
YOu make a choice of what you will communicate and how, and so do I.
And the world does not revolve around you,
there are new students and people needing help all the time, and
because of my gentle insertions
which are personal, and not just hammering people with a tag line
about it, doing the relational thing, I have gotten lots of students that
way.
It's like having a drink at the bar, and mentioning to someone your
talking to about a common interest that you do something which is
related, and will benefit them and yourself.
Basic basic networking and relationship skills,
maybe you need a course in people skills 'grin'.
By the way, when's the last time you donated to the jsonar project?
I just tried but the paypal button on the site isn't working for me,
maybe vic will chime in here with an appropriate email, or I can write him.
It's time to show some love.
At 11:12 AM 9/21/2010, you wrote:
>At 09:53 PM 9/20/2010, you wrote:
>>So you mr. Smart, show some grace and good manners.
>
>I will Mr. Belle, as long as you approach people about your business
>matters on a one-on-one basis, off of the lists I am on.
>I'm not so dense that I won't approach you if I need your services.
>i don't need to see you advertise on here. If someone asks
>something complex and you want to help them through tutoring, that's
>great! Just copy down their e-mail address and approach them.
>
>
>
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