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When we meet the right person to love when we're at
the right place at the right time, that's chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not
a choice. That's chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of
couples who get together because of this) is not a
choice. That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards.
When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing
attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and
contemplate whether you want to make this into a
concrete relationship or just a fling.
If you decide to love a person, even with his or her
faults, that's not a chance.
That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter what,
that's choice. Even if you know there are many people
out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer
than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate
just the same, that's choice.
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by
chance.
But true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice
that we make.
Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful movie quote
that I believe is so true about this: " Fate brings
you together, but it's still up to you to make it
happen."
I do believe that soulmates do exist.
That there is truly someone made for you. But it's
still up to you to make the choice if you're going to
do something about it or not.
We may meet our soulmates by chance, but loving and
staying with our soulmate is still a choice we have to
make.
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