A Letter from a Christian woman to all muslims...nice read...
  
  To My Muslim Sisters
  
  From a Christian woman....
  
  
http://crescentandcross.com/index.php?page=articles&author=joanna_francis&subpage1=sisters1
  
  
  Between the Israeli assault on Lebanon and the Zionist "war on terror," the 
Muslim world is now center stage in every American home. I see the carnage, 
death and destruction that have befallen Lebanon, but I also see something 
else: I see you. I can't help but notice that almost every woman I see is 
carrying a baby or has children around her. I see that though they are dressed 
modestly, their beauty still shines through. But it's not just outer beauty 
that I notice. I also notice that I feel something strange inside me: I feel 
envy. I feel terrible for the horrible experiences and war crimes that the 
Lebanese people have suffered, being targeted by our common enemy. But I can't 
help but admire your strength, your beauty, your modesty, and most of all, your 
happiness. Yes, it's strange, but it occurred to me that even under constant 
bombardment, you still seemed happier than we are, because you were still 
living the natural lives of women. The way women have always lived
 since the beginning of time. It used to be that way in the West until the 
1960s, when we were bombarded by the same enemy. Only we were not bombarded 
with actual munitions, but with subtle trickery and moral corruption.
  
  They bombarded us Americans from Hollywood, instead of from fighter jets or 
with our own American-made tanks. They would like to bomb you in this way too, 
after they've finished bombing the infrastructure of your countries. I do not 
want this to happen to you. You will feel degraded, just like we do. You can 
avoid this kind of bombing if you will kindly listen to those of us who have 
already suffered serious casualties from their evil influence. Because 
everything you see coming out of Hollywood is a pack of lies, a distortion of 
reality, smoke and mirrors. They present casual sex as harmless recreation 
because they aim to destroy the moral fabric of the societies into which they 
beam their poisonous programming. I beg you not to drink their poison. There is 
no antidote for it once you have consumed it. You may recover partially, but 
you will never be the same. Better to avoid the poison altogether than to try 
to heal from the damage it causes.
  
  They will try to tempt you with their titillating movies and music videos, 
falsely portraying us American women as happy and satisfied, proud of dressing 
like prostitutes, and content without families. Most of us are not happy, trust 
me. Millions of us are on anti-depressant medication, hate our jobs, and cry at 
night over the men who told us they loved us, then greedily used us and walked 
away. They would like to destroy your families and convince you to have fewer 
children. They do this by presenting marriage as a form of slavery, motherhood 
as a curse, and being modest and pure as old-fashioned. They want you to 
cheapen yourself and lose your faith. They are like the Serpent tempting Eve 
with the apple. Don't bite.
  
  I see you as precious gems, pure gold, or the "pearl of great value" spoken 
of in the Bible (Matthew 13: 45). All women are pearls of great value, but some 
of us have been deceived into doubting the value of our purity. Jesus said: 
"Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast your pearls before 
swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you" 
(Matthew 7: 6). Our pearls are priceless, but they convince us that they're 
cheap. But trust me; there is no substitute for being able to look in the 
mirror and seeing purity, innocence and self-respect staring back at you. The 
fashions coming out of the Western sewer are designed to make you believe that 
your most valuable asset is your sexuality. But your beautiful dresses and 
veils are actually sexier than any Western fashion, because they cloak you in 
mystery and show self-respect and confidence. A woman's sexuality should be 
guarded from unworthy eyes, since it should be your gift to the
 man who loves and respects you enough to marry you. And since your men are 
still manly warriors, they deserve no less than your best. Our men don't even 
want purity anymore. They don't recognize the pearl of great value, opting for 
the flashy rhinestone instead. Only to leave her too.
  
  Your most valuable assets are your inner beauty, your innocence, and 
everything that makes you who you are. But I notice that some Muslim women push 
the limit and try to be as Western as possible, even while wearing a veil (with 
some of their hair showing). Why imitate women who already regret, or will soon 
regret, their lost virtue? There is no compensation for that loss. You are 
flawless diamonds. Don't let them trick you into becoming rhinestones. Because 
everything you see in the fashion magazines and on Western television is a lie. 
It is Satan's trap. It is fool's gold. 
  
  I'll let you in on a little secret, just in case you're curious: pre-marital 
sex is not even that great. We gave our bodies to the men we were in love with, 
believing that that was the way to make them love us and want to marry us. Just 
as we had seen on television growing up. But without the security of marriage 
and the sure knowledge that he will always stay with us, it's not even 
enjoyable! That's the irony. It was just a waste. It leaves you in tears. 
Speaking as one woman to another, I believe that you understand that already. 
Because only a woman can truly understand what's in another woman's heart. We 
really are all alike. Our race, religion or nationalities do not matter. A 
woman's heart is the same everywhere. We love. That's what we do best. We 
nurture our families and give comfort and strength to the men we love. But we 
American women have been fooled into believing that we are happiest having 
careers, our own homes in which to live alone, and freedom to give
 our love away to whomever we choose. That is not freedom. And that is not 
love. Only in the safe haven of marriage can a woman's body and heart be safe 
to love. Don't settle for anything less. It's not worth it. You won't even like 
it and you'll like yourself even less afterwards. Then he'll leave you.
  
  Sin never pays. It always cheats you. Even though I have reclaimed my honor, 
there's still no substitute for having never been dishonored in the first 
place. We Western women have been brainwashed into thinking that you Muslim 
women are oppressed. But truly, we are the ones who are oppressed; slaves to 
fashions that degrade us, obsessed with our weight, begging for love from men 
who do not want to grow up. Deep down inside, we know that we have been 
cheated. We secretly admire and envy you, although some of us will not admit 
it. Please do not look down on us or think that we like things the way they 
are. It's not our fault. Most of us did not have fathers to protect us when we 
were young because our families have been destroyed. You know who is behind 
this plot. Don't be fooled, my sisters. Don't let them get you too. Stay 
innocent and pure. We Christian women need to see what life is really supposed 
to be like for women. We need you to set the example for us, because we
 are lost. Hold onto your purity. Remember: you can't put the toothpaste back 
in the tube. So guard your "toothpaste" carefully!
  
  I hope you receive this advice in the spirit in which it is intended: the 
spirit of friendship, respect, and admiration. From your Christian sister – 
with love. 
  
  © 2006+ Joanna Francis 
  
  -- 
  
  "There is no drop more loved by God than a teardrop that falls in the dark of 
the night from love of God, meant solely for him and no one else. "
  
  SAVE PAPER - THINK BEFORE YOU PRINT!
  

  

         


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  The University of Melbourne Australia
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