On Tue, March 27, 2007 12:37 pm, Karl Cunningham wrote: > When it stops working, call > it quits.
> But if you and your > partner have changed in incompatible ways, and both want to be true to > themselves, then their option is to split up. > > Here's an example: one partner ceasing to love the other and refusing to > even discuss it, let alone try to improve things. That happened to me in > a relationship that lasted 14 years, 12 of them legally married. It > ended up that I was little more than someone to bring in a paycheck and > fix things when they broke. I spent several years working very hard to > find a solution, and failed. I'm sorry to hear that. That must have been hard for you. I have a question for you. Were you angry at her? Did you think by breaking her marriage vow that that was fair/right on her part?....or did you just shrug your shoulders and say...."She felt it wasn't working for her so it was perfectly fine for her to break her promise and leave." Chris -- [email protected] http://www.kernel-panic.org/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/kplug-list
