A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of
him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty
mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the
students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He
shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf
balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it
was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was
full.. The students responded with a unanimous ‘yes.’

The professor then produced two beers from under the table and poured the
entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the
sand.The students laughed..

‘Now,’ said the professor as the laughter subsided, ‘I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important
things—-your family, your children, your health, your friends and your
favourite passions—-and if everything else was lost and only they remained,
your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter
like your job, your house and your car.. The sand is everything else—-the
small stuff.

‘If you put the sand into the jar first,’ he continued, ‘there is no
room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have
room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.

Spend time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
grandparents. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will
always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.

Take care of the golf balls first—-the things that really matter. Set your
priorities. The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented.
The professor smiled and said, ‘I’m glad you asked.’ The beer just shows
you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a
couple of beers with a friend.

Malvary in Ottawa where it is supposed to snow yet again today.  Did have a
surprise last night that some unknown someone had cleared out the end of the
drive, but by this morning the plough has been by again and it needs doing
again.  The city have promised to get the side streets cleared by Sunday –
hope so because at the moment I can’t get my car in an out because of the
snow banks.

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