In a message dated 7/7/05 10:02:47 AM Eastern Daylight Time, 
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> I'm sitting here at work, wondering whether anything's happened to my 
> sister. She lives in the Lewisham area and commutes by tube every day to her 
> job 
> at the Bureau of Statistics in Westminster. I don't have her work number or 
> e-mail address with me because I never dreamed I'd need them. 

Dear Avital,

It is a shocking development, and you must be very anxious.  I sincerely hope 
all your news fron London will be good.

Jeri
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Spiders,

I am single and have no living relatives, so I made a list of all contacts 
that might be useful to my executor and designated power-of-attorney in 
emergency.  He has a copy, a copy is kept near my home phone, another with Will 
and 
other legal papers, and I carry a copy with me in my wallet.  It fits on an 8 
1/2" x 11" piece of paper that can be folded small.  A copy goes with my 
passport, when I'm away from home.  

I keep this permanently on my word processor, and update it as needed.  And, 
since this may be a useful idea for others on Arachne.  Here is what I put on 
it:

Title: Contacts for Jeri Ames        Date

Executor/Power-of-Attorney   Name, address, e-mail    Phone
Contingent Executor    "              "                                 "
Lawyer with Will, etc.                Etc. down the list  
Physician                                 
Best Friend in Maine
Best Friend in (other location)
Lace Friend in....(for lace collection decisions & help) 
Person with Keys & Alarm Code
Alarm Company
Police
Accountant
Bank
Insurance Agent
Carpenter (for repairs)
Electrician
Plumber
Driveway Repairs
Snow Plowing
Mowing/Landscaping
Heating Oil & Furnace Maint.
Passport #

In other words, if incapacitated, all contact information needed to take care 
of everything in my absence.

I won't say you "must" do this, but I do think that even if you have a spouse 
or children it might be nice to have such a list in an emergency when people 
who care about you may not be thinking clearly.  It acts as a check-list, and 
is organized differently than your alphabetical address book.

Jeri Ames in Maine USA

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