Can't you use tagging to include or exclude people from the calendars
and reports?

-----Original Message-----
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of John
I. Stephen
Sent: Saturday, January 22, 2005 3:20 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Divorce

Hi Hugh:

No problem at all with your response. The issue is not that I wish to
'blank 
out' my ex-wife, it's just that I am trying to produce calendars and
report 
which now include myself and my present family and not the relatives of
a 
lady to whom I am no longer married. It's not me being weird but it's
others 
in my family who don't necessarilly wish to be reminded that it's so-and

so's birthday when the said so-and so was a real 'so- and-so' to us etc
etc 
etc. (that was rather English humour, sorry !!)

So, I fully accept the facts and no, I don't need counselling; I just
want a 
way of moving on and not being reminded and birthadays and anniversaries
etc 
unless I specifically wish to run such reports.

Hope that this made sense

John



----- Original Message ----- 
From: J. Hugh Sullivan
To: [email protected]
Sent: Saturday, January 22, 2005 2:59 PM
Subject: RE: [LegacyUG] Divorce


Even though the message appeared a dozen times I'll only answer once.

Two of my older son's marriages ended in divorce. I would have kicked
the
fanny of one of the first two myself if she had been a man. She was a
thief,
a liar and worse but she is still the mother of his children. So, there
is
every reason, but two, to delete her from my genealogy data base. The
other
reason is because she is a fact - she exists, it happened and I can
separate
personal feelings from facts. If one can't do that he will probably have
real problems with genealogy.

In spite of the above it takes two people to marry and it usually takes
two
to cause a divorce. Get over it, report the facts and don't look back.

If you respond please remember you asked for what people thought and you
didn't ask that only sensitive people respond.

Hugh

>From: "John I. Stephen" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>Subject: [LegacyUG] Divorce (yes I am sure this has been asked before
?!)
>I have been using version 5.0 for some time am have tried to find out
how I
>can exclude my former wife and her family from reports (e.g. birthdays
and
>anniversaries) whilst not deleting her from the database. Now, with a
new
>wife and her family, I wish to retain my ex-wife's family's details for
the
>benefit of my children, but do not wish to have this data merged in
reports
>etc.

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