The show with the students of City school was really good. All the students said really good things and that shows that they had good concepts in their minds. But one thing i didn't like about most of them was that they were continuously criticizing on parents.. I don't think that the whole faults of parents. I know that parents should have communication with their children and they should talk to their children about the good and bad stuff. This is their fault, no doubt. But they, the students,themselves, agreed on something in the starting of the show that they have seen a lot of things in the age of sixteen jo k shayad un k parents ne sixteen ya seventeen ki age main nahi dekhi thi...but the question is that what did they learn from those things? Ajj ka zamana buhat fast hai and her bachay ko buhat saari achi buri batoon ka pata hota hai! Agar app k parents app ko nahi samjhatay k kiya acha hai aur kiya bura tou app k KHUD itni samjh hai k app kisi achi ya buri baat main differentiate kar sako. I mean there are a lot things which our parents don't tell us but we know that that thing's wrong. For example, smoking..koi parents apnay bachay ko smoke kernay ko nahi kehtay but still most of the teenagers smoke these days...why?Don't they know that smoking is harmful for their healths? They know each n everything but they do it because they're encircled by this bad,,,,,habit or whatever you call it...Inferiority complex! Ye hamaray complexes hotay hain jo humain apnay parents se acha cell phone mangnay per majboor kertay hain....aur jis tarhaan se aik student ne kaha tha,,WORLD PRESSURE,,,,ye wohi "World Pressure" hai! Why do you care if your friend has an expensive cell phone? If he drives an expensive car? If he hang out in big restaurants which you might can't afford?! But this is our ego jo humko ye sab karnay per force kerti hai! Sirf expensive gadgets hi nahi,,,most of the students don't want to see bad grades!! They envy those students jo acha parh ker un se agay chalay jatay hain! WHY? Why can't we appreciate anyone? Why can't we try next time aur us ko beat kernay ki kooshish karain! Us se jealous honay ya usay hate karnay ki kiya zaroorat? Ye saari batain Hum sab teenagers samjhtay hain....theres no rocket science in this jis k liay you need your parents guidance! Baray ho gayay ho, khud achay buray ki tameez karna seekho...agar teenage main duniya dekh chukay hain ya aadhi duniya bhi dekh chukay hain tou us se kuch seekhain....Learn something from it...sirf dekhna nahi hai!! And yes, parents should communicate with their children and they should help them when they're stuck somewhere...but trust me, you don't need your parents guidance in everything!! Kitnay bachay aisay hotay hain jin k parents ghalat kaam kartay hain aur agar un k bachay theek kaam kartay hain tou un ko appreciate bhi nahi kartay,,,but wo bachay buhat sensible, buhat intelligent hotay hain...Aisa kaisay hota hai? Wo bachay kahan se atay hain? wo bhi tou hum main se hain!! Main ne khud kitnay parents ko ghalat kam per apnay bachoon ko appreciate kertay howay dekha hai, but i think k un k bachoon ko bhi realization honi chahiyay k hum khud hi ghalat kam na karain aur ager humaray baray ghalat kaam karay hain tou hum unko bhi sahi kaam karnay per majboor karain!! Is main koi burai nahi,,,i m not telling anyone to mis-behave with their elders but there are ways in which you can convey your message to an elder agar wo koi ghalat kaam ker rahain hain tou! And i can elaborate those ways some other time :D.....we should think about these facts and her waqt sirf blame nahi karna chaiyay but apni ghaltiyoon ko bhi realize kar k theek karna chahiyay!!
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