> > > Loving Someone >From A Distance > > > Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the > person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate the people > who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply >because > we > allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for >the > man > of deeds and not for the man of words for you will find rewarding > happiness > not with the man you love but the man who loves you more. > > The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, >far > enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far > to feel the love deep within your being. To let go of someone >doesn't > mean > you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow > that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come >back. > > > Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is >also > setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred, and anger that >keep in > > your heart. > > Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken > your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let >you > grow > with wisdom in bearing it. You may found peace in > just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in >return. But > be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough >room for > > us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the >past > but > real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what >reality > is > today. > > There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone > so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so >intensely > attracted to that person. This feeling soon become a > part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts > and actions. > > The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person >feels > nothing more for us than just a friendship. We start our desperate > attempt > to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still > unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves. > > You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is >how > to > accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or > sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that > dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart >run > your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen >not > only > to your feelings but to reason as well. > > Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that >someone > better is coming tomorrow: If you lose love that doesn't > mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make it sure > that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the > past has left with you. > > Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when > it > does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a >lifetime. > > >?o(r):*%'uIu%'*:?(r):*%'uIu%'*:?o(r):*%'uIu%'*:?(r):*%'uIu%'*:?o(r) :*%'uIu% > There are two ways to live your life. > One is as though nothing is a miracle > The other is as though everything is a miracle. > Albert Einstein. > (1879-1955) > > >?o(r):*%'uIu%'*:?(r):*%'uIu%'*:?o(r):*%'uIu%'*:?(r):*%'uIu%'*:?o(r) :*%'uIu% > > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________________ Get Your Private, Free E-mail from MSN Hotmail at http://www.hotmail.com. ********************************************************************** De in dit emailbericht verstrekte informatie is vertrouwelijk en uitsluitend bestemd voor de geadresseerde. Het kopieren van of verstrekken aan en gebruik door derden van deze informatie is niet toegestaan. Door de elektronische verzending van dit bericht kunnen er geen rechten worden ontleend aan de informatie. Dit emailbericht is gecontroleerd op aanwezigheid van computervirussen. This email and any files transmitted with it are confidential and intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you have received this email in error please notify it to the sender. This footnote also confirms that this email message has been swept for the presence of computer viruses. ********************************************************************** ---- To unsubscribe, e-mail : [EMAIL PROTECTED] To subscribe, e-mail : [EMAIL PROTECTED] Autoresponders Netiket : [EMAIL PROTECTED]
