Speaking of love,
My lovely friend, whom I love, recently told me that love is a verb. Meaning
that it needs effort to know and realize the love we have for our love one.
If one starts questioning the other's love, then the other must reassure
his/her love that they belong together.

Love need action, that's why it is a verb. It is something dynamic that can
change from time to time, whether become more or less.

I personally dislike the word 'falling in love'. Why? Because to me whenever
we fall, it will be hurt. So, I prefer to say 'feel love'. I wanna feel love
instead of fall in love. Because, although many said falling in love is a
wonderful thing, still it's a fall.

I wanna feel love without have to experience the fall.

But if you do fall, please...get  up as soon as you can....Love is
waiting....


On 2/6/07, Well... I am SeksPeare <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

  Halo Mang, apakabar?

Yup, let´s talk about love, sometimes...:-)
Kebeneran beberapa hari lalu, aku nerima email dari seorang sohib (cewek)
yang bertanya ½Why do we have to fall in love?½. Karena dia dan cowoknya
sedang ada persoalan. Cinta ½sejati½ kayaknya menjadi pertanyaan disini...

Aku, cuman bisa ngasih komentar, sbb:...

     It is a ´serious´ question you asked me here, it was just like a
question of ´why we were born´. I dont know which one of your questions I
should answer, is it about ´why do we fall in love´ or your ´personal case´
about you and your boyfriend.

My opinion about ´why we fall in love´ because we are all like somekind of
´crashed planes´ here on earth, you were crashed on Canmore, I was crashed
on Makassar. Both you and me are looking for the ´black box´ for the answers
why we were ´crashed´ and searching informations for our own needs to live
our life... I finaly found my ´black box´ here in Croatia, long long away
from home, where I was ´crashed´ (Makassar)

So,  ´love´ is somekind of ´black box´ which is contains some informations
about our life it self. We keep searching that ´black box` in any matters
possible, including in persons we met. Or on the person we might become
friends/partners/family in the future for whatever reasons...

That is my ´theory´ of what ´love´ is. I think, it can be applied to you
and your boyfriend too.

Nggak tau apa dia dgn cowoknya bisa bertahan, tuh... Ber-happy- rialah
mereka yang mengenali ´black box´nya masing-masing... Shakespeare (yg
sungguhan, bukan yg ´imitasi´:-) bilang: Thats where the end of the
journeys.. Happy Valentine for all...

May Fun be with you...
   SeksPeare (nah, ini yg ´imitasi´ itu :-)
http://kopitalisme.tk



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