The question is, why marry those arrogant men? Before marry someone, women should ask (or check) their men: 1) Is he promise you to love you until you die... not until he find someone younger. 2) How will the family be like... does he believe in equal relationship protected under the national law? 3) How about his extended family - his Dad & Mom especially - do they believe in the same views?
--- In [email protected], Nana P <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > What has happened to Kristina—one potential dangdut singer in Indonesia can be considered as one example of how men in Indonesia generally still think that their wives are their property. Islam has been abused by many conservative men in this case. Men who are thought as the head of the family have full rights to decide what to do in the family, including to let their wife work outside the house, or even do a simple thing to do, just go outside the house, let's say to go shopping or visiting her own parents. > I still remember when I was a kid, my elementary school teacher told my classmates and me about an example of a saliha (pious) wife who did not dare to go out of the house because her husband told her to stay home all the time before he went to war. Even when her parent was about to die, she insisted not to leave the house by saying, "Tell my parent that I cannot leave the house because my husband didn't let me go. Send my regards to my parent." Even, when her parent died, she stayed put. > For the complete article, please click below > > http://afeministblog.blogspot.com/search/label/Kristina > > Thanks :) > > > For the world, you are just someone; for someone, you can be his/her world > > visit my blogs please, at the following sites > http://afemaleguest.blog.co.uk > http://afeministblog.blogspot.com > http://afemaleguest.multiply.com > > THANK YOU > Best regards, > Nana > > > > --------------------------------- > Ahhh...imagining that irresistible "new car" smell? > Check outnew cars at Yahoo! Autos. >
