Hi everyone,

Going through the CoC again, I notice that it has a few gaps we should 
probably address.

While the current wording explicitly prohibits racist language, there are a 
lot of other *-isms which are unfortunately quite present in various spaces on 
the XMPP network and which sometimes roll into XSF rooms.

I do not think that we want to be perceived as, for instance, an anti-LGBTQIA+ 
community, so we should extend the CoC to:

a) send the clear message to the world that we won't tolerate behaviour that,
   and
b) give our moderators (that includes me in some places) the necessary holding 
   to enforce when necessary

Concretely, I propose that we add to 2.4 Be respectful, the following items on 
the list of things to avoid:

> - Use of racist, misogynistic, anti-trans, anti-gay, ableist slurs, or other
>   derogatory pejoratives for oppressed identity groups against such groups.
> 
> - Blatantly racist, casteist, ableist, sexist, anti-trans, or otherwise 
>   offensive and bigoted discourse.

In addition, before the list of things to avoid, I would like to add:

> Respect others requests for space. That includes to disengage from a 
> discourse if your partner(s) indicate that they do not want to discuss a 
> topic any further. It is not easy to let someone be "wrong" on the internet,
> but boundaries are there to be respected.

To section 2.5 ("Be friendly and supportive"), I would like to add after the 
first paragraph:

> This includes being mindful of the abilities of others; nobody is born an 
> expert in anything and we all had to learn at some point. Be supportive of 
> newcomers and learners. Do not be patronizing or condescending.

I may propose a PR against XEP-0458, but before doing so I wanted to offer 
this for discussion on this list.

kind regards,
Jonas

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