Hahah it is funny you say that Rigsy.  I noticed a strange thing start
a few weeks ago.  I guess it may well be a function of my own
advancing years.  So I was sitting watching TV, well that it the TV
was on whilst I was lost in some place in my head and I got to
remembering some bad choies I had made in my own youth.  Suddenly the
wife said whats up with you?

Apprently I was making some strange barking sound?  Embaresment
perhaps?

On Feb 16, 12:42 pm, rigsy03 <[email protected]> wrote:
> I did and didn't enjoy and was reminded over lunch by a friend about
> all the real fun we had had- but we were in a strata of parties,
> dances, balls, and were popular young ladies- with boundaries of the
> times. It was pretty shallow in many ways, I guess, and many picked
> unwisely when engaged and married then on to kiddies and another set
> of social expectations. The '60's dawned with a shock! We had to
> discover angst and rebellion through books and movies and had no
> political thoughts beyond the outward charm of the Kennedy's until we
> could not avoid the bad news of the times. But our parents kept us in
> this bubble- maybe they thought they were doing us a favor. A male
> friend recently remarked our chief mission was to be pretty! (He's an
> engineer.) When my daughter was a teenager, she envied the boundaries
> I had had but she is happily married and content but that is not
> always the outcome of her age group, either.
>
> Anyway, I would not wish to repeat any act of my little drama of life
> though I am sometimes tempted to re-arrange the plot to suit my later
> understanding and I still react with a sigh when reminded of a poor
> choice. Maybe it is distress that I made a dumb move! :-) That I
> trusted untrustworthy people, etc. Well, it's all part of growing up
> and learning through experience and unfortunately many lessons have to
> be learned the "hard way" (so we don't forget?).
>
> Cheers to you.
>
> On Feb 15, 11:17 am, "[email protected]"
>
>
>
> <[email protected]> wrote:
> > Heh without fully comprehending what choice you are talking about I
> > can't really answer that one.
>
> > Me i fully enjoyed my teenage years, well once I had gotten older than
> > 16 I did anyway.  I realised that things where not 'so unfair' and
> > ceased thinking that 'everyone is against me'.
>
> > Heh I would not do it again though, so I retract my previous
> > statement, I did not fully enjoy my teen age years.
>
> > On Feb 15, 2:49 pm, rigsy03 <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > Wouldn't that choice be relative to shifting values and ideas- or it
> > > could be moral relativism to justify behaviors- or decisions made with
> > > little info or arbitrary moods and desires.
>
> > > What teenager truly has enjoyed their youth? :-)
>
> > > On Feb 15, 6:45 am, "[email protected]" <[email protected]>
> > > wrote:
>
> > > > Hey Rigsy,
>
> > > > Yes yes indeed.  The youth do certianly think differantly from those
> > > > who have alrady enjoyed their youth.  As I am constantly telling my
> > > > wife, don't worry babe, he thinks as a teenager thinks coz he is a
> > > > teenager, this will change.
>
> > > > Absolute truth is a difficult thing to find, in religion it can only
> > > > be 'Sat sri Akaal!' 'God is true.
>
> > > > As to politics then surly the proof of the pudding......
>
> > > > Indeed we are forced to pick and choose, and it is the manor of such
> > > > picking and chooseing that interests me greatly.  Many years ago I
> > > > used to say that 'There are no truths, only what you belive to be true
> > > > and what I believe to be the same'  It seems I havn;t quiet shifted
> > > > this beliefe of mine.
>
> > > > Cheers,
> > > > Lee,
>
> > > > On Feb 12, 1:06 pm, rigsy03 <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > It's all "downhill" from birth! :-) We move towards obsolescence in
> > > > > our final years- not only our bodies but our ideas/views can be
> > > > > trapped- a disconnect might be a better way of expressing this idea.
> > > > > Ancient writers complained of youth's behavior in their time so I do
> > > > > think there is a generational struggle that has to be considered- or
> > > > > ignored. And there is constant upgrading and inventing to accomodate.
>
> > > > > The speed and wide scope of information sharing is a new reality. How
> > > > > do the opinions of others affect one's truth? Are there absolute
> > > > > truths in the soft areas of knowledge- like politics, religion and the
> > > > > arts? Yet there are some truths that survive regarding human behavior-
> > > > > so I do think there is a universality we can relate to despite the
> > > > > obvious differences.
>
> > > > > We really have a short life span to experience and be open to all
> > > > > possibilities. We are forced to pick and choose.
>
> > > > > On Feb 10, 5:58 am, "[email protected]" <[email protected]>
> > > > > wrote:
>
> > > > > > Ahhh realised truths!  Or epitheny's.
>
> > > > > > The problem being how to confirm the truth of such things?  Mankinds
> > > > > > mind changes throughout the ages, and we can see that these 
> > > > > > 'realised
> > > > > > truths' of only a centuray past are now out of date.
>
> > > > > > How long then before what we belive to be true is proved otherwise?
>
> > > > > > On Feb 6, 3:09 am, Ash <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > > > > > > On 2/4/2011 3:12 PM, bjdowling wrote:> I've finally understood 
> > > > > > > the metaphoric.  Exciting stuff for sure.  As
> > > > > > > > the human race-well-many of us anyway-came to this time of 
> > > > > > > > electronic
> > > > > > > > media which was meant to disturb us so to make us 
> > > > > > > > question-because we
> > > > > > > > never had-our in tact belief systems held sway over us.  It is 
> > > > > > > > through
> > > > > > > > the metaphoric-which lies just below the surface-we have begun 
> > > > > > > > to
> > > > > > > > understand ourselves and all our experiences here have brought 
> > > > > > > > to us.
> > > > > > > > I've come to also understand that we're as pre-programmed 
> > > > > > > > software
> > > > > > > > applications-so wonderfully timed-our lives unfold every part 
> > > > > > > > of every
> > > > > > > > moment as we understand what to do next and finally-why?
>
> > > > > > > How horrific is it's beauty. Cold crystalline ice resonating at 
> > > > > > > the full
> > > > > > > spectrum of creation it is like a blast of arctic wind in the 
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