The SYN ACK from the server was dropped because the firewall had already removed the state created by the SYN.
On 6/23/23 22:51, Markus Wernig wrote:
pflog shows that the IPv6 SYN-ACK replies from the backend servers are being dropped by pf. But weirdly the blocks are logged over 30 seconds after the SYN is allowed through:

