> okay, but i like to judge people based on their looks. and i can be
> wrong, and that's fine, but it is fun to guess just who they are based on
> nothing more than what appears before me. and as far as meeting people
> via internet/chat i think it's great to meet people, but am i then to
> allow myself to be judged solely on the things i write? ooo, what if i
> write something dumb? it's the same deal. and basing a sole mate on
> simply what you have in common is kind of silly. what about what you
> don't have in common? my boyfriend and i like to "argue" about things.
> it stirs the mind. as long as there is agreement on the important
> issues (whatever those may be) then you can call it what you want, but
> make decisions based on experience and gut instincts and don't deny
> yourself the possibility of a soulmate.
woah i totally agree with you. i mean i don't like to judge people based
on their looks, but if i see someone who looks so obnoxious on the outside,
i'm not so sure i wanna be friends with him or her. otherwise i don't give
it another thought. and yeah, don't judge people by what they write all
the time. i'm glad you pointed that out. i'm sure i've written millions
of stupid things before, but i'm still young and that's gonna happen. what
i say i don't necessarily mean..especially insensitive stuff. and i'm also
glad you pointed out the thing about basing a soul mate on what you have in
common with them. that's absolutely ridiculous. i used to think it was
that simple, but just because i like the same movies as them doesn't mean
it's a love match. they have to be able to handle my personality and vice
versa. truth be told, sometimes when you have a soulmate it doesn't even
mean that stuff'll be perfect for eternity..but i think the two people do
keep coming back for more. i dunno. this can be really hard and confusing
to talk about i think :P but you're gonna come into problems if you just
love each other cos of stuff you have in common. i've learned that it's
*much* more than that. if they suck, they suck. not even a love for
modest mouse can stop that ;)
- amy
