To give a man's perspective, I understand 'sexy older women' to mean 33-43, but then I've always had a liberal view of female attractiveness, & often admired women in this agegroup. Of course my view is fairly standard, yet relative, as Paul may in fact consider 25 as 'older'. I don't for a second think he was referring to 'Maude Adams' or 'Liz Taylor (now)' ! James
