Phil,
That is a good one.  I love my wife to death but can say that she merely 
'tolerates' what I buy/sell.  She is a fan of room design but that design does 
not have room for posters/lobbies or stills.  My personal buying only comes 
from money I make from my sales.  That is my choice and not hers but it helps 
keep the peace.   I feel after 15 years of marriage I am gaining ground 
though.  She realized that our gameroom was really being wasted and felt it 
could better house my home office more than my garage was.  All she asked was 
that I kept it livable without too many scattered boxes of movie goodies.  She 
has helped me hang some of my favorites which is tough since with 18 feet of 
bookcase, my desk and some storage cabinets, I don't have a lot of wall space 
left.  That wide open ceiling is starting to look inviting.  I'll have to 
figure how to put posters up there.....  ha!
I am already eyeing my youngest daughters room (she is 14) for a media 
room....  Guess it would be wrong to have a countdown calendar outside her door 
for when she hits 18 and old enough to move out.  Every once in a while I like 
to go in there and measure floor space while she is in there just to keep her 
wondering what I am up to.  
          Rick
www.ilovefilms.com


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From: Philip Charles Edwards <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: [email protected]
Sent: Monday, June 9, 2008 4:11:25 PM
Subject: Re: [MOPO] How much time/money do you spend on eBay NOW, compared to a 
few ye...


Claude's response made me wonder about something else. 
How many of us have spouses/partners who are equally interested in 
our poster collecting interests? How many just tolerate it? How many have no 
idea how 
much gets spent on it, and how many collectors hide what they spend on it? 

Over the years, I have seen several collectors go bankrupt and several 
marriages/ 
partnerships go bust because of "the hobby" becoming an  obsession. 

Does the sentence, EITHER BELA LUGOSI GOES OR I DO ring a bell with any older 
collectors, and the 
consequences of that statement for one particular collector? 

Phil 


On Mon, 9 Jun 2008 16:48:05 EDT, Claude Litton wrote 
> 
> Bruce 
>   
> The picture you paint has some interesting details but it is not as dark as 
> you paint it.  Life changes and you have to go with it.  Before I get into 
> eBay, let's talk posters in general.  When I began poster collecting you were 
> selling at Christies and also auctions in which you sent out flyers and we 
> had to call in to buy items.  Most of the time I was told that what I wanted 
> was sold. These were dark days and there weren't many places to get posters.  
> Movie Collectors World would arrive by overnight mail to my home and I would 
> spend an hour or more with a magnifying glass and then frantically call to 
> find out that what I wanted was sold.  We really had no clue as to what was 
> rare and valuable and what was fairly common.  Ebay changed all of that.  The 
> auctions allowed me to really add to my collection.  I am fortunate in that I 
> can afford to buy pretty much what I want and I saw a lot that I wanted. As 
> time passed more and more people
 arrived on the scene and we found out what really was scarce and what was 
fairly common.  The cream has risen to the top.  You applauded ebay and 
established yourself very well.  All of us went into buying frenzies at the 
beginning because we thought we were obtaining rare items.  In many cases we 
did, and many times we did not.  I bought many only to find out they are 
plentiful in supply.  I bought many posters on ebay and most are worth much 
more today but many will never reach what I paid for them. (I am thankful for 
the ones that turned out well as they outnumber the others)  Basically, ebay's 
arrival was tremendous and I will always be thankful it arrived. 
>   
> Packing was a problem and still is especially because I buy plaster fragile 
> plaster statues.  However, I have overcome this problem (and with everything 
> I buy including posters).  I email the seller and discuss packing before I 
> pay.  I never pay until I obtain a reply from a seller that I have no 
> experience with. When the item is fragile and valuable I ask them to take it 
> to a UPS store where it will be packed by professionals and I pay a little 
> more.  It is well worth it and I have been fully satisfied ever since.  Every 
> seller has listened to my suggestions for packing and I have not had a 
> damaged item (due to packing) in quite a while. 
>   
> Ebay does not enforce categories and I just recently complained on mopo about 
> Ricksmovie who is flooding the US originals 1940's category with 70"s 
> posters.  However, this does not mean I will stop looking.  I have noticed a 
> pattern to Ricks listings so I quickly pass it by. We just have to learn to 
> ignore these things so they don't get the better of us.  There is no question 
> that ebay does not care but it is still a very important venue to obtain 
> items for my collection. 
>   
> Now for today:  I used to spend approximately $30-75,000 per year on ebay and 
> auctions.  This has dwindled  down to approximately $15-20,000.  This is not 
> because ebay has become bad.  It is because I have bought almost every poster 
> that I ever wanted.  As the years have come and gone I have filled the roster 
> with my wants.  Just as Michael always publishes his want list on mopo, I 
> have a want list also.  However, it has gotten very small and no matter how 
> bad ebay has gotten, I will be there if I find one I am seeking.  For 
> example, a few weeks ago I picked up a one sheet of Rose of Washington 
> Square.  I have been trying to get this poster for many, many years.  There 
> have been no Chans for auction (that I do not own) for a long time.  My 
> sci-fi collection wants are approximately 5 posters and I recently was outbid 
> on one I was waiting for.  However, there will be another one, one of these 
> days. 
>   
> My point is that we have all been collecting a long time and our collections 
> are pretty full.  I have over 300 posters framed in my home and in my office 
> with virtually no wall space left for posters.  (My wife only allows me to 
> hang them in our finished lower level and not in the main part of the 
> house).  My office is saturated and that is where I hang the three sheets).  
> I search ebay 15 minutes each morning and 15 minutes each night.  I do this 
> even when away, as I did this weekend when I was in Missouri.  (Had I more 
> time I would have called on you Bruce, but I was only there 2 days.) 
>   
> I have a huge collection of plaster big head statues of mainly movie stars.  
> My collection which is over 300 was accumulated over the last 11 years on 
> ebay.  However, I rarely buy one these days and it is not because I do not 
> want to do so.  There are very few out there that I do not own.  
> So-------finding rare ones takes much more time and I spend less money. 
>   
> I also do not want to buy any poster over $2,000  unless I want to display 
> it. It makes no sense to throw it in a drawer.  Therefore, unless I love it 
> and am willing to take a poster down (which I also love) then there is no 
> sense in buying more.  
>   
> Summing up, there is no question that I detest ebay's attitude, their inane 
> changes, just for the sake of change, and their constant attempt to milk more 
> money out of sellers.  However, I have no intentions of "Packing it in and 
> quit buying on ebay cold turkey" to use your language.  That would be cutting 
> off my nose to spite my face. 
>   
> Hope this answers your question Bruce and hope you quit your time extended 
> auctions also.  Allow sniping and you shall prosper. 
>   
> Claude 
>   
> 
> In a message dated 6/9/2008 8:32:59 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL 
> PROTECTED] writes: 

> I USED to be a really regular buyer on eBay (for a while, my buying level was 
> so high I needed a full-time employee to take care of paying, unpacking, 
> leaving feedback, etc). Not just movie paper, but also vintage glass frames, 
> paperback books, 1939 World's fair items, #1 magazines, and a few other areas 
> I somehow wandered into. 
>   
> I had a lot of really good searches saved, and I also would go through a few 
> select entire categories, and also check all the offerings of the sellers I 
> bought from the most. 
>   
> One day, I noticed that eBay had added a lot of unnecessary categories, that 
> really messed up my category searching, and worse yet, many sellers were 
> posting items wherever they wanted, and no one was policing this at all, and 
> complaints to eBay went unanswered. 
>   
> Later, I noticed that most of my searches had gotten screwed up (some kind of 
> changes eBay had made), and I was just unwilling to re-do them all (since 
> eBay might ruin them again at any time). 
>   
> I also noticed more and more sellers being deceptive in their titles, meaning 
> I would have to click on the listing to see what it REALLY was. Sometimes 
> titles like "Casablanca, rare style original movie poster" might turn out to 
> be a 1990s video poster! 
>   
> Finally I noticed that many of my "favorite" sellers were listing less and 
> less, and when they did list anything good, they would usually have a high 
> starting price, unwilling to gamble their good posters on an eBay that was 
> clearly delivering less and less in the way of good buyers. 
>   
> Worst of all, I was finding that a growing percentage of my purchases took 
> longer and longer to arrive (sometimes I would have to complain to get it 
> sent) and  a growing percentage of my purchases were not very well wrapped, 
> and a growing percentage of my purchases were ovrer-graded and the seller had 
> somehow "missed" extremely obvious defects. 
>   
> ONE DAY, I JUST PACKED IT IN AND QUIT BUYING ON EBAY COLD TURKEY.  Do I miss 
> finding lots of cool stuff? Absolutely! But do I miss the hour a day I used 
> to spend searching all over eBay, finding something that seemed to 
> be promising but that turned out to be nothing, or do I miss the crushed 
> packages, or the over-graded items? Not at all! 
>   
> HOW ABOUT YOU? How do your eBay buying habits NOW compare to a few years ago, 
> both in terms of time spent on the site, and total money spent? 
>   
> Bruce 
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