He’s at peace and in a better place.. On Sat, Aug 3, 2024 at 8:30 AM James Gresham <[email protected]> wrote:
> Tom, I am praying for you, your son and your family. May God give you > comfort at your brothers loss. This note from you is just one more > reminder to me that we are all headed in that direction. Therefore it is > wise to remember we are all accountable to God in the end. Blessings to > you and your son and your family. Jim Gresham > > On Sat, Aug 3, 2024 at 5:07 AM Glenn Taranto <[email protected]> > wrote: > >> Tom - >> >> So sorry for your loss. I'm sorry to read he was in so much pain. May his >> memory be a blessing. >> >> Glenn >> >> On Sat, Aug 3, 2024 at 12:31 AM Tom Martin < >> [email protected]> wrote: >> >>> hello folks iam a bit numb >>> as my Brother Jim has passed at age 61.. >>> Happy graduation Jimmy he was born jan14 1963 >>> and he was a great brother as kids we wer 7years aprt so i didntspend >>> loads of time with him. mom sent himto day careandi think maybe he was >>> treated bad and never told me.. I used to defend him whenhe got Bullied >>> .. he loved music and Magic tricks his dad was polish and loved him >>> dearly but he had polioso he was oncrutches ..steve alsowas a alcoholic >>> and beat our momwhen he gotdrunkand me too...so she divored him >>> Jimmy would visitwith his dad who wouldget grocerysandthhey evenhad a >>> small coin collection. steve died of cirrosis ofliver in 1971 >>> so my brother grew close to our mom she loved Jim when he had a daughter >>> and a son she would visit them the daughter was mentally undeveloped so >>> in diapers at 40...and the boy was just sad as his dfad would notspend >>> time/// Jim was called thelone wolf as he was anti social..then on my >>> birthday he had anotherdaughterwithanotherwomen...it didnt last >>> so my brother got addicted togoing to Detroit Gambling Casinos...he >>> loved to gamble listen to Heavy metal bands and like me he went for wild >>> sexy women..and he called it the Save _a -Ho foundation as he would get >>> goo dancers thatwereon heroin andwild and adopt them and help them >>> whenthey needed money >>> >>> he had a great heart butwas tormented by a dual personalityof being >>> angered at societyas he wanted tobea fireman and police officer but >>> didnt make as he thoughtaffirmatiive action blocked his opportunity... >>> sohe thought republican andi was democrat...jim never goton welfare or >>> food stams he was too proud,,,and he would always help me over the years >>> at trade shows in my retail shop. he made the costume armor,,andwe went >>> to NYCand chicago..he went into Havac fixing furnace and ac.. fora group >>> that did remodels of sec 8 low income he seemed angered at how people >>> used the system and told me they have cars better then me... >>> he said he was christian andi would say christ told me love everyone >>> even our enemies >>> soabout a week ago he came overout ofthe blue and was sayingthe new >>> freon ac gas was flammableand seemed very depressed bynotgetting good >>> restand he had had a heart attack and stroke about 2 years ago...also >>> like me he found he was diabetic... so Isaid jim well did you go >>> gambling>> he said yes..andi said i think you need some help andilefte >>> likke 3 voice mails onhis phone suggesting 988 mental health help as i >>> thoughthis priorities seeem out of whack,,, well he got upwalked out >>> last time i saw hime and then a week went by maybe less.. My son callls >>> and said Dad the neighbors of jim busted the door open and found him >>> dead inside//// so hes ar the corner geting toxology,and autopsy.... >>> the wierd thing my son said it seems like Jim had staged itas all the >>> info of his life was out whereit could be found hehad a footlockerof >>> Family photos and saveall my music history ,and family history going >>> back to grandparents.. >>> he must have been so depressed..and so all my memories are flooding my >>> soul as on one hand if i believe Jesus words he is with the family and >>> at peace icalled the988and crisisand asked ifiam thinking ok as iam >>> feeling so many mixed thoughts as iloved mylittle brother but mom was >>> worried about him..before she died she told me i was thestrong one b ut >>> she was worried about Jimmy....i said heyiam scared shitless/....i just >>> keep trying..as i had my footamputate.. iam blind inright eye.and part >>> blind left myleft earwent deaf..iam ina wheelchair, my left foot is >>> infected withosteomylitus.. >>> but i welcome God to end mylife i just thoughtits a insult to just die.. >>> but all my friend are gettingold and dieing andillbe 68 aug >>> 112024..andthe world is so hectic with violence, hate. political >>> division.. i just keepaskeing Jesus to return as i am not sure i can >>> weather much else,,,my son is a nervouse wreck from me..his mom and now >>> his uncleand his kids.. so if you all could just say a prayer for my >>> son. mybrother and all my friends andthier famils that would be great >>> and for allpeople inthe world like Israel. UKraine , and the whole >>> Glose.. God bless everyone//// sorry iam speaking outas i know we all >>> suffer similar issues..so best to all of YOUe >>> >>> Tom >>> Hollywood dream factory® >>> since 1977 >>> >>> ---- >>> >>> Visit the MoPo Mailing List Web Site at www.filmfan.com >>> ___________________________________________________________________ >>> How to UNSUBSCRIBE from the MoPo Mailing List >>> >>> Send a message addressed to: [email protected] >>> In the BODY of your message type: SIGNOFF MOPO-L >>> >>> The author of this message is solely responsible for its content. >>> >> >> ------------------------------ >> >> To unsubscribe from the MoPo-L list, click the following link: >> https://listserv.american.edu/scripts/wa-american.exe?SUBED1=MoPo-L&A=1 >> > > > -- > James Gresham // CEO > > Gresham's Seasonal Services, Inc. > <http://www.greshamsseasonalservices.com/> > 18501 Henry Ct. 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