JTK wrote: > >A wise man once said, "A man hears what he wants to hear, and disregards >the rest." I've found that applies equally well to seeing. > > Yes indeed, and it applies to a lot of people, got a mirror? ehem!
Read about Yohari's window. it will be very illustrating: http://wbarratt.indstate.edu/515/johari.htm
