*8.The Holy Prophet [s] said: "The Quran is Allah's university; so, learn as much as you can in this university." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 92, p.19*
*9.The Holy Prophet [s] said: "Fie upon that Muslim who does not allocate (at least) one day a week to the study of the details of his religion and to explore (the affairs) of his religion." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 1, p. 176* 1.Imam Sadiq [a] said: " Be careful of your knowledge and see from whom you get it." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 2, p. 92 2..Imam Sadiq [a] said: "Try to obtain knowledge and ornament it with patience and dignity; and be humble for the one who learns knowledge from you."Al-Kafi, vol.1, p. 36(04122006) 3.Imam Baqir [a] said: "Try to learn knowledge because learning it is a good action and study is itself a worship." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 78, p. 189 4.The Holy Prophet [s] said: "Teachers and students both share in rewards but other people are deprived of them." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 2, p. 25(17012007) 5.Knowledge and the Virtue of Learning It The Holy Prophet [s] said: "He who searches for knowledge is similar to a person who fasts during the day and keeps vigil at night and is busy worshipping. If a person acquires a branch of knowledge, it is better for him than possessing as much gold as the height of Abu Qubais Mount which he would distribute in the way of Allah." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol.1, p.184(28012007) 6.Imam Hassan [a] said: "Teach your knowledge to others and (try to) learn yourself the knowledge of others." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 78, p. 111 7.The Holy Prophet [s] said: "The virtue of knowledge is more beloved with Allah than the virtue of worship." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 1, p. 167(07032007) ================================================================= *20. **http://al-islam.org/fortyHajj/* <http://al-islam.org/fortyHajj/>* Forty Ahadith on Hajj* ===================================================================== *MARRIAGE SHAADI* *32.agar apko is ke khandan valo se lena-dena nahi hai to inhe aapse taalluk hai.apni shari ke hayat ko unke khandan se talluk hargij juda nahi kar sakege or khud bhi inse apna rista kat nahi sakege. agar sharike hayat ke galat ajij v akarib se insan ki tarkki par asar padta hai or jindagi me in ki dakhal andaji ko khulli tor par khatam nahi kiya jasakta hai. Ref.javanor sharike hayat ka intekhabP161 * 1)iman ki hifajat har sachche momin ki dili khavahish hoti hai or vahi ise mahefuj rakhne ke silsile me qurbaniya dene se bhi darta nahi hai to hame is hadis par bhi gor karna chahiye! H. Rasule khuda S.A.V. Shadi se insan ka nisf (aadha) din mahefuj ho jata hai or nisf ki hifajat ki ise khud khoshish karna chahiye .P19 2)Holy quran. or eci ki kudrat ki nishani yo me 1 ek ye bhi he ke is ne tumhare vaste tumhari hi jinski bibiya peda ki ta ke tum in ke sath rah kar aaram hasil karo. Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P21(g28112006)(w23042007) 3) ladka ya ladki nek or achche akhalak ka hona chahiye.agar aesa nahi hai to???? be din or bad akhalak orat mard ko zalil kar deti hai or is par arsa e hayat tang kar deti hai. ishi tarha be din v-bad akhalak mrad bhi orat ki jindagi ko barbaad kar deta hai or ese nafasyati marj me mubtela kar deta hai. bad akhlak v badchalan orat se H. Rasule khuda s.a.v Ne allah se panah talab ki hai."parvar digara is orat se me teri panah chahata hu jo budhape ke jamana se pahele budha banade" Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P26 ref.Vasaelush shiya 14/22 (g29112006)(w26042007) Shadi ki fajilat 4) allah ne insan ko is tarha paida kiya hai ke voh jindagi ke sathi ke bager nakis (adhura)hai. khavah(bhale) voh ilm v iman or akhlaki medan me kitni hi tarkki karle lekin jab tak shadi nahi karta hai is vakt tak matluba kamal tak nahi pahonch sakta(chahe mard ho ya orat) mard,orat ek dusre ki kamjori hai,jismi aetebar se bhi or ruhi lehaj se bhi. Tanha dono hi nakis hai or jab ek dusre ke sharik ban jate hai to ek dusre ko kamil karte hai quran ne mard v orat ko ek dusre ka libas kaha hai 2.187 "orate tumhare liye libas hai or tum (mard) orto ke liye libas ho." (01122006) Bivi allaha ki azim nemat 5) nek or munasib,behtar bivi(WIFE) insan ke liye khuda ki bahot badi nemat hai is silsileme H.Rasule khuda s.a.v.ka irshad hai "musalman mard ne nemat e islam ke bad,nek v shayishta ( munasib,behtar) bivi se afjal v behtar koi nemat nahi payi . Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab-P34 Vasaelush shiya 14/23 (02122006) 6) bivi allah ki hikmat ki nishani or insan ke liye sukun ka bais hai sur e rum Aayat 21 allaha ki nishani o me se ye bhi hai ke is ne tumhari hi jins se tumhara joda banaya take tum in ke daman me sukun hasil karo or tum me mohbbat or movddat payda ki, beshak isme gor karne valo ke liye nishaniya hai.Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P 37(02122006) 7) shadi insan ke aamal ki kimmat badhati hai shadikana aabadi insan ke vajud par asarandaj hoti hai or is andaj se is ki kimmat badhati or is ki shakhsiyat ko tarkki deti hai ke is ke aamal bhi khuda or uske farishto ki nigah me aehmiyat ke hamil ho jate hai or in ki kimmat kayi gunah badh jati hai. I jafre sadik A.S "shadi shuda insan ki do(2)rakat namaz ger shadi suda insan ki 7o(sattar) rakat namaz se behtar hai.Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P38, Vasaelush shiya 14/6. (03122006) 8) Allah ke najdik behtar ghar(house):- shadi ke bad jo ghar vajud me aata hai voh allah ke lutf v mohabbat ka markaj karar pata hai allah ise mohabbat v maher bani ki najar se dekhta hai H. rasule khuda S.A.Vislam me rakhkhi jane vali buniyado me allah ke najdik sabse behtarin shadikhana abadi ki bunyad hai. Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab p=38(04122006) 9) H.ALI A.S Shadi ki kadro kimat ke silsile me farmate hai ashabe rasul s.a.v Me se jo bhi shadi karta tha isi ke bare me H.Rasule khuda S.A.V. Farmate the is ka din kamil ho gaya. Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P.39(05122006) 10) H. Rasule khuda s.a.v. Ki is hadis se malum hota he ke jabtak insan shadi nahi karta is vakt tak is ka din khatreme rahta hai q k jinsi khavaish, ruhi dabav, tanhai ka aesas, ijtemayi jinmedario se be parvahi, or kuvare pan ke or bahot se nukshanat hai ke jin se insan ke iman ki buniyad mutajaljal huti hai. Lekin shadi khana aabadi or munasib v behatar v mehbub v hamdrad bivi ke sath jindagi gujar neme shavat par bhi kabu hojata hai or kalbi sukun bhi milta hai or allah par insan ke tavakkal me bhi ijafa hota hai. Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P.39(06122006) 11) shadi ki bhi ek fasal v behar hoti hai agar fasal v behar gujar jayegi to aap ka nuksan hoga agar pake huye fal se istafada na kiya jaye to kharab ho jayega. Kya ye afsos ki bat nahi he ke allah ki ye behtarin neamat javani me ham khayali chije se darte hai? Allah ne quran me mushkil kushayi ka vayda kiya hai. sure nur-32 "agar voh fakir hoge to khuda apne fajal se inhe be nayaj kardega.Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhabP48 (07122006) 12.H. Rasule khuda s.a.v. : apne ger shadi shuda afrad ki shadi karo. q k allah shadi ki vaja se in ke akhlaq ko behtar bana yega.or is ke rizq me izafa karega.Ref.javanor sharike hayat ka intekhab p82 13. H. Rasule khuda s.a.v. : jo insan faqir v nadani k khof se sadi nahi karta hai. voh khuda se bad guman hai q k allah ne farmaya hai " agar nadar ho to me apne fazal v karam se inhe be niyaz kar duga. Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab p85 Vasaelush shiya 3/5(10122006) 14. H. Rasule khuda s.a.v. : shadi karo k is se rizq me izafa hota hai.Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab p85 Vasaelush shiya 3/7 15.Imam Jafre sadik a.s : Rizq bivi bachcho k sath hai.Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab p85 Nurus saqlain3/599(11122006) 16.H. Rasule khuda s.a.v. : logo ! latif v khabir (allah)ki taraf se jibreil mere pas aaye.or farmaya : baqera (unmaried) ladikiya aesi hai jese darkhto k fal.agar inhe vaqt par yani is fasal me jis me pakte hai na toda jaye to(surj ki garmi)inhe kharab kar degi ; tej hava k joke ise gira degi . Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab p69 Vasaelush shiya14/39 (25122006) 17.H. Rasule khuda s.a.v. : agar vaqt par ladki ki shadi na ki jaye to voh aese hi kharab ho jati hai jese voh meva kharab ho jata hai jise vaqt par na chuna(liya) jaye.Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab p91(26122006) 18.Aek ladki pegambare islam S.A.V. ki khidmat me aayi. or kaha:ay allah ke rasul s. a.v Mere valid mere chchajad bhai se meri shadi karna chahte hai. me raji nahi hu. or is se shadi nahi karna chahti. pegambare akram s.a.v Ne pahele to baap ke ehteram ki khatir nasihat ki or farmaya agar ho sake to apne valid ki baat man lo. ladki ne kaha: muje apne chchajad bhai se koyi dil chaspi nahi hai. me ise apna shohar nahi bana sakti. pegambare akram s.a.v. Ne farmaya tumhe akhatyaar hai. chahe kabul karo ya rad kardo. is vakt ladki ne kaha: ay-allah ke rasul s.a.v me ab apne chchajad bhai se shadi karne par tayyar ho. me chahti thi ke ye baat dusre valeyden ko malum ho jaye ke voh apni ladki ka jabardasti is ladke se nikah nahi kar sakte jis se ladki raji na ho. Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhabP115. (29122006) 19. islam ne is insaan ko mujahid-e-rahe khuda kaheta he jo apne aahlo- ayal ke akhrajat pura kar ne ke liye koshish karta hai. Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P.135 20.Sure noor ayat 32 "ger shadi suda ki shadi karo. (inke shadi ke vasayel farham karo)Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P138 (30122006) 21. H. Rasule khuda s.a.v. :Jo insaan kisi ki shadi ke sil sile me kadam udhata hai. Allah is ke har kadam par ya har is baat ke badle jo voh kehata hai isse ek sal ke rozo or (ek sal ki) namaz-e-shab ka savab ata karta hai .Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P138. Vasaelush shiya 14/27 (31122006) 22. Imam jafare sadiq a.s : jo insaan kisi ger shadi shuda ki shadi karata hai Allah roze kayamat is par rahem karega.(Allah ki rahemat se badh kar or kaya chij hosakti hai ?) Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P139 Vasaelush shiya.14/26 23. Imam Jafare sadiq A.S. : Behtarin sifarish V shafa'at ye he k ladke-ladki ki shadi ke liye vasta ban kar sifarish kare yaha tak Allah in ki shadi karade. Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P139 Vasaelush shiya.14/27(01012007) 24. Imam Musa kajim A.S. : Jo ger shadi shuda ki shadi karata hai (chahe ladka ho ya ladki )vahi kayamat ke din arshe khuda ke saya me hoga or ise koi khof na hoga. Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P14o Vasaelush shiya.14/27(02012007) sharike hayat ke intekhab ka meyar Ab ham dekhe ge k hamari hone vali bivi (wife) ya shohar (husband) kesa hona chahiye? 25. (1)Dindari : jis shakhs ke paas iman nahi he iske paas kuch bhi nahi hai..Bedin insan dar hakikat ek chalti firti lash hai. Jo shakhs din ka paband nahi.Jo jindagi ka ahem tarin rukn hai.Is ke bare me ye jamanat nahi di ja shkati ke voh sharike hayat ke hukut ki riyaat karega.(khayal rakhkhega) Dindar shakhs be din orat se shadi nahi kar sakta.Or na is ke sath kamyab jindgi gujar sakta hai.Dindar insan apni bivi ke dusre nakaes(khami) ko bardash kar sakta hai lekin is ki bedini or be parvahi ko hargij bardash nahi kar sakta. Ha. is surat me ek dusre ko bardash kar sakte hai. jab dono be din ho ya dini aehkam v qavanin ke paband na ho. lekin voh kamyab jindgi nahi gujar sakege. Din k bager kamyabi v sa'adat nahi mil sakti . Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab p149(03012007) 26.sharike hayat k intekhab k silsile me ak shakhs pegmbre akram s.a.v Se hidayt lene aaya. H. Rasule khuda s.a.v. : Tumhare upar dindar orat se shadi karna vajib hai.(dusri jgah aap s.a.v ne sare insano ko mukhatib kar k takidi hukam diya hai.)Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhabp150.Vasaelush shiya.14/30. (04012007) 27.H. Rasule khuda s.a.v. : jo shakhs kisi orat se is k mal ki khatir shadi karta hai.Allah ise is k hal par chod deta hai or jo shakhs (sirf)is ki khubsurti or husn ki bina par shadi karta hai to voh (orat)me kabile nafrat chize dekhega or jo shakhs kisi orat se is ki dindari or iman ki bina par shadi karega Allah is k liye is (orat)me sare meyar fraham kar dega.Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab p 151. Vasaelush shiya 14/30 (05012007) 24.(2)Nek akhlak: shaishta or sharif shrik e hayat k khususiyat v sifat k bare me pegmbre akram s. Ka irshad hai "jab tumhare pas is insan (ladka ya ladki)ki taraf se pegam aaye k jis k din v akhlak se tum razi ho to is se shadi kar lo or agar aesa nahi karoge to jamin par azim fitna v fasad barpa ho jayega..Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab p 155. Vasaelush shiya 14/15 (06012007) 25. gor kiya aapne ? Pegambar s.a.v. Ne sharike hayat ke intekhab ke liye din v akhlak ko do asal meyar ke unvan se bayan kiya hai. Yahi dono kamyab jindagiki bunyad hai dusre meyar ki itni eahmiyat nahi hai.Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab p155 (07012007) 26. Aek musalman husein bin bashshar basti ne imam Raza a.s.ko khat likha. or apni ladki ki khavahish gari ke silsile me aane vale pegam se mutallak apna fariza daryafat kiya. voh likhte hai. Hamare ajijo me se aek shakhs meri ladki ka khavashgar hai. Lekin bad akhlak hai. Mera kaya fariza hai ?is se apni ladki ka aqad kardu ya nahi? aap kya farmate hai? imam ne javabi khat likha. "agar bad akhlak hai to is se apni ladki ka aqad na karo" . dekha apne! Ke imam a.s. Ne sirf isi na pasand sifat ki bina par aqad karne se saf-saf inkar kar diya. aek bad akhlak insaan ke sath jindagi gujarna aesa hi hai jesa ke ked me bamushakkat jindagi gujarna. bivi v shohar me se har ek ki bad khalki dusre asar andaj hoti hai .or easehi bachcho me bhi isi ki asar jata hai. Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhabP156 (08012007) 27.Achche v bure akhlak ke namune:- 1)khush bayani v bad jabani. bad jabani,jaban daraji,jaban se taklif pohchana, be adbi or beparvahi se guftagu (bat)karna.Gali galoch dena, bad akhlak ke roshan namune hai. khush bayani, adab or haste chehre se bate karna achche akhlak ke roshan namune hai. Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhab P156 (09012007) 28.Hakikat ye he ke jaban insan ke bateni halat ki tarjuman hai.Jis zaraf ke andr jo hota hai vahi tapakta hai.Ye mumkin nahi he ke insan ka batin saf or salim ho lekin jaban galiyo se aaluda ho.Jaban vahi daricha hai jis se bate ni halat jahir hote hai.Insanki jaban is ke dil ka aaena hai.(10012007) 29. Ab ham khush akhlak v bad akhlak tuk me bayan karte hai KHUSH AKHLAK BADAKHLAK HAK PZIR, HATDHARMI TAVJOA SUYE JAN SACH BOLNA TAKBBUR HUSNE JAN JUTH BOLNA BA'ADAB BEADAB SUJA'AT BUJ DILI NARAMDILI SANG DILI VAFADARI BEVAFAYI SAKHAVAT BUKHL(kanjusi) KINA'AT LALCHU (28032007) 30.(3)KHANDANI SHARAFAT:-khandani sharafat se shohrat-sarvat (mal) or shamaji makam v manjelat murad nahi hai.Bal ke pakijgi or dindari murad hai. Ek ladki-ladke se shadi karna esa hi hai jesa ke ek khandani nasl se rishta jodna. Shadi ke silsile me ye bat kahena barabar nahi he ke me to ladki se shadi karna chahta hu. muje is ke khandan or rishtedaro se koi lena-dena nahi hai. Kyu ke 1)ladki is khandan ki ek farad hai.Is darkhat ki shakh hai.Is ki rago me issi khandan ka khun hai. Ye baat hakikat he ke is khandan ke bahot se akhlaki,ruhi,jismi or akli sifat-khasushiyat isse miras me mile hai.Or is ki taraf muntkil huye hai .Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhabP159 (02042007) 31.Is sil sile me H.Rasule khuda S.A.V farmate hai "saleh(nek)or sharif khandan me shadi karo kayuke nutfa ka asar hota hai " aap hi ka irshad hai "achi tarha dekho ke apni avlad ko kaha karar de rahe ho (apni avlad ke liye kis ko ma bap bana rahe ho )kyu ke nutfa or varsi khasusiyat khufiya tor par bache me tabdil ho jati hai or apna asar dikhati hai. Ref.javan or sharike hayat ka intekhabP160 (15042007) [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
