*Wife And Pleasing Her Husband * *26.Imam Baqir [a] said: "No intercessor for a woman, on the Reckoning Day, is more effective with Allah than the consent of her husband."* *Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 81, p. 345* *27.Imam Abi-l-Hassan-ir-Rida [a] narrates from Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] who said: The best women among you are those who have five qualities."* *Amir ul Mu'mineen [a] was requested what those five were when he said:* *She is easy-going, obedient, humble, and economical to her husband. * *She is good tempered to him. * *She is cooperative and helpful to him in difficulties. * *Whenever her husband is angry or depressed, she does not rest until she finds him happy and pleased. * *When her husband is absent from her, she protects his belongings in his absence.* *Such a woman is an agent of the agents of Allah and the agent of Allah will not be disappointed, (she gains her correct hopes)."* *Al-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 324*
Honour Your Wives 1.Imam Baqir [a] said: "He who takes a woman (marries) should certainly respect her, because the wife of anyone of you is a means of your pleasure, so the one who marries a woman should not spoil or disgrace her (by disregarding her respectable rights)." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 103, p. 224 2.Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] said: "In any condition conciliate the wives, and talk with them warmly and through kind words, thereby, they may change their actions into good ones." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 103, p. 223(g18012007)(w26042007) 3.Imam Rida [a] narrated from his fathers from Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] from the Holy Prophet [s] who said: "Woe to the woman who makes her husband angry, and happy is the woman whose husband is pleasantly contented with her." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 8, p. 310(21012007) 4.The Holy Prophet [s] said: "He who has two wives and does not treat justly in dividing his self and his wealth between them, he will be raised on the Resurrection Day while he is chained in punishment and half of his body is not straight until he enters Hell." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 7, p. 214 5.Imam Musa ibn Ja'far [a] narrated from his father [a] from the Holy Prophet [s] who said: "However much the Faith of a man increases, his regard for women increases." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 103, p. 228(09022007) 6.The Holy Prophet [s] said: "From the things of the world, I regard women and perfume highly, but prayer is the light of my eyes, (the love and worship of Allah). Al-Khisal, vol. 1, p. 183(20022007) 7.Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] said: "The worst man is he who restricts his household." Nur-ul-Absar Shablanjy Wives and Good Treatment to Their Husbands 8.Allah (s.w.t.) said: "And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect." Sura al-Room, No. 30, Verse 21(09032007) 9.When the Holy Prophet (p.b.u.k.) received some information from 'Umm Salamah about 'Uthman ibn Maz'un, he set out towards his followers and, (addressing some of them), said: "Do you keep away from (your) wives? Surely, I go to women, I eat food during the day, and I sleep at night. So, he who turns away from my way of life is not of me." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 93, p. 73(17032007) 10.Imam Sadiq [a] said: "He who abandons marriage for the fear of the expenses imposed on him, mistrusts Allah, Almighty and Glorious." Man La Yahduruhul Faqih, vol. 3, p. 385(g23042007) 11.It is narrated from Imam Rida [a] that Imam Sadiq [a], in answer to a woman who wanted not to marry in order to gain a great virtue, said: "Do not do that, because if it was a virtue, Fatimah (May God bless her and give her peace) would be more competent than you, and, surely, there is none (of women) who can excel her in any virtue." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 103, p. 219(g18052007) 12..Imam Sadiq [a] said that when Uthman ibn Maz'un's wife announced to the Prophet [s] that her husband was always busy fasting and praying day and night without paying attention to his life and wife, the Prophet [s] went unto his house and found him praying. When 'Uthman finished his prayer, the Messenger of Allah [s] said: "O' 'Uthman, Allah has not sent me for monkery but appointed me for a fluent, easy religion (which protects the rights of the body and soul). I fast, keep up prayers, and associate with my family. Then, he who likes my way and my creed, must follow my way of life, my Sunnah; and, verily, marriage is of my Sunnah." AI-Kafi, vol. 5, p.494 (06112007) Wife and Her Dower 14.The Holy Prophet [s] said: "The bad omen of a woman is her expensive dower and her ill temper." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 58, p. 321 15.Imam Abu 'Abdullah said: " Thieves are of three divisions: Those who hinder giving alms; Those who consider the withholding of women's dower sum as lawful; Those who take loans and have not decided to pay it back." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 96, p. 12 (26112007) 16.Imam Sadiq [a] said: "Verily, one of the blessings of a woman is the inexpensiveness of her dower, while one of her bad omens is the heaviness of her dower." Man La Yahdurulul Faqih, vol. 3, p. 387 17.Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen [a] said: "Do not make the women's dowers heavy, because it creates enmity." Wasa'il-ush Shi'ah, vol. 21, p. 253 (13052008) 18.Imam Sadiq [a] said: "The worst sins are three: Labouring animals as murder, restraining the dower of a woman, and withholding the wage of a worker." Bihar-ul-Anwar, vol. 64, p. 268 Admirable Qualities of Wives 19.The Holy Prophet [s] said: "There is no (believing) woman who gives her husband a glass of water but it will be rewarded her better than the worship of one year during which she fasts on days and keeps vigil during the nights." Wasa'il-ush Shi'ah, vol. 20, p. 172 (20062008) 20.The Holy Prophet [s] said: "It is to a woman to perfume herself with her best fragrances, wear her best clothes, and ornament herself with her best ornamentation in order to present herself available to her husband whether it is day or night." AI-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 508 21.Imam Amir ul Mu'mineen Ali [a] said: "The Jihad (fighting in the way of Allah) of a woman is to afford pleasant company to her husband." Nahjul-Balagha, saying No. 494 (26072008) 22.The Holy Prophet [s] said: "Allah, Almighty and Glorious, has said: 'Had I willed to gather the good of this world and the next for a Muslim believer, I would set for the one a humble heart, a thankful tongue, and a body patient in afflictions. (To a man I would give) a pious wife whom when he looks at he is delighted and who (she) protects herself and his properties for him when he is away from her." Usul-i-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 327 23.Imam Sadiq [a] said: "Intensively is cursed (by Allah) the woman who hurts her husband and makes him grievous, but intensively is prosperous the woman who respects her husband and does not hurt him while she does obey him in all conditions." 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