In the name of Allah, the Most-Merciful, the All-Compassionate
"May the Peace and Blessings of Allah be Upon You"
Praise be to Allaah, we seek His help and His forgiveness. We seek refuge with
Allaah from the evil of our own souls and from our bad deeds. Whomsoever Allaah
guides will never be led astray, and whomsoever Allaah leaves astray, no one
can guide. I bear witness that there is no god but Allaah, and I bear witness
that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger.
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Jabir Narrated that the Prophet, peace be upon him, gave these instructions in
his sermon during Farewell Pilgrimage: "Fear God regarding women; for you have
taken them [in marriage] with the trust of God." [Mishkat]
Narrated Aisha, God's messenger said: "Among the believers who show most
perfect faith are those who have the best disposition, and are kindest to their
families." [Tirmidhi]
Narrated Abu Huraira, God's messenger said:"The believers who show the most
perfect faith are those who have the best disposition and the best of you are
those who are best to their wives." [Tirmidhi]
Aisha has related thatthe Holy Prophet, peace be upon him, would enter the
house with a pleasing disposition and a smile on his lips. [Uswa-i-Hasana]
Narrated Al-Aswad: "I asked Aisha, `What did the Prophet, peace be upon him, do
at home?' She said, `He used to work for his family and when he heard the call
for the prayer, he would go out.'" [Bukhari]
Narrated Abu Huraira: "Allah's Apostle, peace be upon him, said,`The woman is
like a rib; if you try to straighten her, she will break. So if you want to get
benefit from her, do so while she still has some bent.'" [Bukhari]
Narrated Abu Huraira: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, `Whoever believes
in Allah and the Last Day should not hurt (trouble) his neighbor. And I advise
you to take care of women, for they are created from a rib and the most crooked
portion of the rib is its upper part; if you try to straighten it, it will
break, and if you leave it, it will reamin crooked, so I urge you to take care
of women. [Bukhari]
Narrated Abdullah bin Amr bin Al-As: "Allah's Apostle, peace be upon him, said,
`O Abdullah! Have I not been informed that you fast all the day and stand in
prayer all night?' I said, `Yes, O Allah's Apostle!' He said, `Do not do that!
Observe the fast sometimes and also leave them at other times; stand up for the
prayer at night and also sleep at night. Your body has a right over you and
your wife has a right over you.'" [Bukhari]
Narrated Ibn Umar: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, `All of you are
guardians and are responsible for your wards. The ruler is a guardian and the
man is a guardian of his family; the lady is a guardian who is responsible for
her husband's house and his offspring; and so all of you are guardians and are
responsible for your wards.'"
Men should forbear any shortcomings of women in view of the following verse of
Quran:
Live with them in kindness; even if you dislike them, perhaps you dislike
something in which God has place much good. Quran [4 : 19]
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