Long story short: How can I have mutt refuse to send an email if the contents contain a certain string, such as the example "Erica"?
Long story long: A friend of mine now openly identifies with male gender, and has changed his legal name, and preferred name, to a new (male) name. The problem is I've known this person since 5 years old, and it is being so hard for me to begin calling them the new name. He is surely patient and understanding of my repeated mistakes, so it is more my frustration with me. Kind regards, Xu
