We've always had good discussions/conversations ...this is also one such Sami --> Its not the feelings lets get practical and live to it .....Guess you have somewhat misunderstood my coments , if not well i guess it so...
i also agree with Sarim's fwd and understand the feelings in it , but there is always two sides of coin which i would to like to highlight ...in this era you have get along and person with no money / fortune have no place.... my point was you would certainly need to balance your official life and personal life...As a son to our parents we have fulfill our duties and responsibilities...after all Money alone will not get you everything...money is medium alone its itself is not everything. On the othert hand we must also stabilise ourselves monitarily in this competitive world...to overcome any situation suggestions/comments are always welcome... Kabir --> Iam not so mean as you think iam On Fri, Nov 13, 2009 at 4:25 PM, S.A.M.I . <[email protected]> wrote: > No MK, u r wrong!!! > > He is not Hard hearted guy... He is not feeling that properly... > > Mr. Sarim started his forward from > *Everyone who is far away from parents on jobs jobs > should have to read this * > > If he is in abroad & also not thr with his family / friends then he will > feel that definetly. He is not in that situation... but others comments are > from the situation explained. > Leave it... > > so ultimately... Ikkaraiku akkarai pachai!!!! > > But the thing is Mr. Sarim's intent is correct!!! > > Bala P >> Dont mind this... Hope u understand the theme from now... > We come here(Abroad) for not only for Fortune(Dhiravium) but also for the > experience, if u earn it (thr is no ending for both), One fine day we want > to think according to our heart's words about the below Moral & want to > decide on the same day whether we should be with parents or with money!!! > > If u still require money u will miss the other Important one...Later with > only money, @ that time u will realize like the author of the story (after u > lost everything(PARENTS)) > > Note : Any way these *commitments* r the main part of this life... It > will not automatically coming to u, we should be responsible for every thing > which is happening in our life. > For ex : If u just got a home in abroad, u cannot leave from thr...since u > need to pay the installment (commitment) accordingly. > From my findings : Life in abroad can be classified as two part, one is > before marriage / after marriage. If u married & returned to abroad it will > be anyway critical to return back to India immediately. :( since according > to the children growth/studies u will be staying here for years.... So be > aware my abroad friends / friends who will go abroad for job in future... > > Pls correct me if iam wrong! > > > Thanks & regards, > > Saminath. G, > Global TAC - IP & DATA Engineering Group, > | SingTel | 31 Exeter Road, #02-00, Comcentre Podium Block, Singapore > 239732 | Tel: +65 6838 3388 | Fax: +65 6738 3769 | Email: > [email protected] | Hand phone : 0065 9011 5376 | > > Men may come & men may go but F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P goes forever... > > > On Fri, Nov 13, 2009 at 9:07 PM, Mahendra krishna < > [email protected]> wrote: > >> Kalnenjikara(Hard Hearted Guy)!!!!!!! >> >> *Ur's >> >> M.K. >> >> "making impossible possible".* >> >> >> ------------------------------ >> *From:* Balasubramanian Pichumani <[email protected]> >> *To:* [email protected] >> *Sent:* Fri, 13 November, 2009 6:34:31 PM >> *Subject:* [MaaVeeMaaKaa] : Re: One bedroom flat? A MUST READ >> >> Dudes, >> >> Dont get so touched ....feelings koraingpa ....this is just another >> side...dont you guys remember our ols tamil saying "thirakadal odiyum >> diraviyam thedu" ( Go beyond seas and earn fortune ). we need to balance >> life and career. >> >> On Fri, Nov 13, 2009 at 2:13 AM, Bala J <[email protected]>wrote: >> >>> Sarim, >>> >>> Its nice... Thanks. >>> >>> ----- Original Message ----- >>> *From:* Mohammed Sarim <[email protected]> >>> *To:* [email protected] ; [email protected] >>> *Sent:* Friday, November 13, 2009 11:21 AM >>> *Subject:* [MaaVeeMaaKaa] : One bedroom flat? A MUST READ >>> >>> >>> >>> Hi , >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> Everyone who is far away from parents on jobs jobs >>> >>> should have to read this >>> >>> >>> >>> heart-touching mail ! >>> >>> >>> >>> ONE BEDROOM FLAT... >>> >>> >>> >>> WRITTEN BY AN INDIAN SOFTWARE ENGINEER.. >>> >>> >>> >>> A Bitter Reality As is the dream of most parents, I >>> had >>> acquired a degree in Software Engineering and joined >>> a >>> company based in USA, the land of the brave and >>> >>> opportunities. When I arrived in the USA , it was as >>> if >>> a dream had come true. >>> >>> >>> >>> Here at last I was in the place where I wanted to be. >>> I >>> decided I would be staying in this country for about >>> >>> five years in which time I >>> >>> would have earned enough money to settle down in >>> India >>> . >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> My father was a government employee and after his >>> >>> retirement, the only asset he could acquire was a >>> >>> decent one-bedroom flat. >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> I wanted to do something more than he could. I >>> started >>> feeling homesick and lonelyas the time passed. I >>> used >>> to call home and speak to my parents every week >>> using >>> cheap international phone cards. Two years passed, >>> two >>> years of Burgers at McDonald's and pizzas and discos >>> >>> and 2 years of watching the foreign exchange rate, >>> >>> getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down. >>> >>> >>> >>> Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents >>> that >>> I had only 10 days of holidays and everything must >>> be >>> done within these 10 days. I got my ticket booked in >>> >>> the cheapest flight. Was jubilant and was actually >>> >>> enjoying shopping for gifts for all my friends back >>> >>> home. If I miss anyone then there will be talk. >>> After >>> reaching home I spent a week there, going through >>> all >>> the photographs of girls and as the time was getting >>> >>> shorter I was forced to select one candidate. >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> My in-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would >>> have >>> to get married in 2-3 days, as I will not get >>> anymore >>> holidays. After the marriage, it was time to return >>> to >>> USA. After giving my parents some money and telling >>> the >>> neighbours to look after them, we returned to USA . >>> >>> >>> >>> My wifeenjoyed this country for about two months and >>> >>> then she started feeling lonely. The frequency of >>> >>> calling India increased to twice in a week, sometimes >>> 3 >>> times a week. Our savings started diminishing. >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> After two more years we started to have kids. Two >>> >>> lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were gifted to us by >>> the >>> Almighty. Everytime I spoke to my parents, they >>> asked >>> me to come to India, so that they could see >>> >>> theirgrandchildren. >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> Every year I decide to go to India . But in part >>> work >>> and in part monetary conditions prevented it. Years >>> >>> went by and visiting India was a distant dream. Then >>> >>> suddenly one day I got a message that my parents >>> were >>> seriously ill.. I tried but I couldn't get any >>> holidays >>> and thus could not go to India .... >>> >>> >>> >>> The next message I got was that my parents had >>> passed >>> away and as there was no one to conduct the final >>> >>> rites, the society members had done whatever they >>> >>> could. I was depressed. My parents had passed away >>> >>> without seeing their grandchildren. >>> >>> >>> >>> After another couple of years passed away, much to >>> my >>> children's dislike and my wife's joy, we returned to >>> >>> India to settle down. I started to look for a >>> suitable >>> property, but, to my dismay, my savings were short >>> and >>> the property prices had gone up during all these >>> years. >>> I had to return to the USA ... >>> >>> >>> >>> My wife refused to come back to the US with me and >>> my >>> children refused to stay in India .... My 2 children >>> >>> and I returned to US, after promising my wife I >>> would >>> be back for good after two years. >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> Time passed by, and my daughter decided to get >>> married >>> to an American and my son was happy living in the US >>> >>> ... I decided that I had enough and wound up >>> everything >>> and returned to India .... >>> >>> >>> >>> I had just enough money to buy a decent 2-bedroom >>> flat >>> in a well-developed locality. >>> >>> >>> >>> Now I am 60 years old and the only time I go out of >>> the >>> flat is for the routine visit to the nearby temple. >>> My >>> faithful wife has also left me and gone to the holy >>> >>> abode. >>> >>> >>> >>> Sometimes I keep wonderingif it was all worth. My >>> >>> father, even in spite staying in India, had a house >>> in >>> his name and I too have the same, nothing more. >>> >>> >>> >>> I lost my parents and children for just ONE EXTRA >>> >>> BEDROOM. >>> >>> >>> >>> Looking out of the window, I see a lot of children >>> >>> dancing. This damned cable TV has spoiled our new >>> >>> generation and these children are losing their >>> values >>> and culture because of it. I get occasional cards >>> from >>> my children asking if I am all right. Well,they >>> >>> remember me, to say the least. >>> >>> >>> >>> Now perhaps after I die, it will be the neighbours >>> >>> again who will be performing my last rites. >>> >>> >>> >>> May God bless them. >>> >>> >>> >>> But the question still remains 'Was all this worth >>> it?' >>> >>> >>> I am still searching for an answer...... ......... >>> >>> ..!!! >>> >>> >>> >>> START THINKING >>> >>> >>> >>> IS IT JUST FOR ONE EXTRA BEDROOM? >>> >>> >>> >>> "LIFE IS BEYOND THIS ... >>> >>> >>> >>> DON'T JUST LEAVE YOUR LIFE .... >>> >>> >>> >>> START LIVING IT ..." >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> With ever friendly, >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> SArim >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> _ >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >> >> >> -- >> Cheers, >> Balasubramanian. >> >> ------------------------------ >> The INTERNET now has a personality. YOURS! 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