Hi,
that's very useful!
I would be very interested to hear your other tips for "task naming 
psychology" & other areas :)

On Wednesday, May 9, 2018 at 11:49:29 PM UTC+3, Fletcher Kauffman wrote:
>
> I, too, have this same problem. I've done a lot of work, personally, on 
> understanding and parsing it (the resistance).
>
> What I have discovered is that often, when I have an action on a to-do 
> list (I do not use Next Actions), the ones that fallow (sit for a long 
> time, glaring at me in red), are tasks that are, just in their name, 
> somewhat vague.
>
> That is, that sometimes, tasks I resisted were actually themselves not 
> tasks, but desired outcomes. Something like "spend more time with Emily" is 
> not actually an action-- it is an outcome.
>
> Furthermore, I found that the key to nearly all of this was *the first 
> word* of the title. If that first word was a concrete action verb (go, 
> sit, write, call, open, close, take), then those things would get done. The 
> kinds of actions that had a lot of resistance to them were things that 
> "involve more than one step"-- and I did a lot of these: "Figure out", 
> "Learn about", "Do something about", "Develop", "Work on". Those things 
> would sit, because they weren't clear what I was supposed to do next.
>
> I could possibly write a book on the rest of what I observed, but I did 
> find this bit useful-- as a root cause.
>
> I'm also working on a solution to this now.
>
> On Tuesday, March 20, 2018 at 1:40:56 PM UTC-7, John . Smith wrote:
>>
>>
>> Hi Ed
>>
>> The solution to my MLO problem is... [drum-roll]  ...to take drugs!
>>
>> Sorry but I had to laugh, even though I get your intent was to help.
>> OK, joking aside, in truth I do find that meditation does help a lot with 
>> focus & purpose. But drugs & meditation aside, I do still reserve the right 
>> to say that MLO would be easier to use is we could find a way to have more 
>> than one Next Action per Project. I still think the best thing of all would 
>> be to hand-pick additional individual tasks to flag them to appear on the 
>> Next Actions list. [Fwiw, GTDNext has this.]
>>  
>> Failing that, if we had a global setting to show the next XX tasks (e.g. 
>> 3 tasks) for all projects would be extremely welcome. [FWIW, Nirvana has 
>> this].
>>
>> Given that other task managers have these features, maybe I'm not quite 
>> so bonkers after all?
>>
>> Or even maybe a field at the Project level for how many tasks to show in 
>> the Next Actions list. That way for larger projects you could adjust this 
>> value up and keep smaller projects just showing the next 1 tasks.
>>
>> Any other takers?
>>
>> J
>>
>>
>> On Tuesday, March 20, 2018 at 1:26:45 PM UTC, Ed Wallace wrote:
>>>
>>> John, I get it. I don't think this will get fixed with software. Have 
>>> you tried adderall? I only ask ask because I totally get what your saying, 
>>> and it sounds just like me without my ADD meds!
>>>
>>

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