Can I share a clue with you?  This is a North American English language list.

Threatening to show up at someone's door is a pretty douchebag way to make a 
point. What next? A rumble in the school parking lot at 3:45?  

The person who taught me about BGP in 1995 worked for a large international 
carrier at the time, and told me the story of how network technicians in the 
Middle East would refuse to talk to HER because she couldn't possibly know what 
SHE was talking about.  That story of sexism has stuck with me since then.

If it was a language mistake, then I educated the OP on the reason to use the 
right pronoun.  If it was sexism, then I called him out on his bullshit.

Either way Barry, if you want to come to my door, be my guest, but it will be 
at that moment you realize what a huge mistake you made.  

Sent from my iPhone

> On Dec 27, 2014, at 4:20 PM, Barry Shein <b...@world.std.com> wrote:
> 
> 
> May I share some clue?
> 
> The OP is probably not a native speaker of English.
> 
> You don't play PC language games with people who you aren't *certain*
> are native speakers of English.
> 
> Why? Because if you do I will show up at your door!
> 
> I dunno, just don't do it, it's rude and stupid, imagine if you were
> trying to post in your college Arabic or French or whatever and got
> hit with subtleties like this instead of a simple answer.
> 
>   -b
> 
> 
>> On December 27, 2014 at 14:35 clay...@mnsi.net (Clayton Zekelman) wrote:
>> 
>> That is why the better pronoun choice would have been 'you', not 'he' or 
>> 'she'. 
>> 
>> Sent from my iPhone
>> 
>>> On Dec 27, 2014, at 1:47 PM, Javier J <jav...@advancedmachines.us> wrote:
>>> 
>>> What if they don't identify as a he or a she?
>>> 
>>>> On Fri, Dec 26, 2014 at 6:46 PM, Clayton Zekelman <clay...@mnsi.net> wrote:
>>>> What if the peering team member is a she?  Should she not contact you if 
>>>> so?
>>>> 
>>>> Sent from my iPhone
>>>> 
>>>>> On Dec 26, 2014, at 5:48 PM, Youssef Bengelloun-Zahr <yous...@720.fr> 
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>> 
>>>>> Hello,
>>>>> 
>>>>> If someone from IAM peering team is watching, could he please get in touch
>>>>> OFF-list please ?
>>>>> 
>>>>> Best regards.
>>>>> 
>>>>> --
>>>>> Youssef BENGELLOUN-ZAHR
>>> 

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